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Love is something every human being especially women crave for and so i was compelled to join in this beautiful contest.
First of all, i will subtly maintain my stand that there is absolutely nothing like love at first sight. It's all what the media programmed us to believe especially through the many fairly tale books and movies we are being exposed to.
There is only what we call Affecton, Attraction, likeness,Infatuation at first sight.
I had a discussion with a very close friend of mine Micheal few months ago and he opened up to me that most times 90 out of 100 men that asked a woman out on a first date didn't do so because they were in love with her.
- It is rather because they felt an attraction and thought that she would probably be cool to hang out with.
- some were just consumed with lust and want to have a piece of her.
- Others are just bored and tired thus want an adventure.
All these reasons and more didn't mean that Love cannot happen. It is in them that we find Love or heart break. There are some whose intention was to have a one night stand and ended up spending the rest of their lives together in love whereas others never call back the person they went on a date with because they discovered that he or she wasn't their type.
Love takes time to buid. It oftentimes starts as friendship before transcending into something as beautiful as love. Before you can genuinely love another you must have known that person in and out accepting all their perfections and imperfections. You cannot claim to love someone yet you opt out immediately you find out one of their many ugly sides.
keys To Ensure Your Relationship Remains Strong and Healthy
- Commitment: this is the most important of them all because it takes two to tangle. Both couple have to be committed in the relationship for it to work out and remain strong.
- Trust : you have to trust your partner and also be trustworthy too. Avoid doing things that would make them question your faithfulness.
- Support: couples need to support each other both financially, mentally. Help them become a better version of themselves.
- Avoid Selfishness Do not care for just your happiness alone but consider what your partner wants too
- Go on dates: Do not be too busy with work and family life that you forget to have fun and a good time with each other.
-Talk to a Therapist: when you feel that something is wrong in your relationship, do not neglect it. Seek professional help and find the missing puzzle.
These are just a few of the many ways that we can keep our relationship healthy and strong. I hope this piece is helpful and you enjoyed reading it as much as i enjoyed writing it.