Hi, ladies of Hive. Gladly, I am about to write again in your community, but this time I am not participating in the contest, depending on the different themes. Maybe next time I want to join your contest if the prompt insists on my recognition.
Also, I felt disappointed to get left behind with the contest that was held in such a row, and most importantly, I'm glad not participate because it has many meanings with my curiosities and experiences through my mental health profile, since I have been diagnosed with schizophrenia.
But, again, I have a topic that I want to share with all the ladies about the truth of women's rights in achieving a healthy behavior, which is important due to the many people who may get attention and evaluate you as a whole woman or individual.
So, this article was inspired by my mother and my sister, who lived together with my father and me. Hmm... It's been such a tremor to explain since this article was neglected in my draft. I don't know that it's all about that. Last December, I got my client too far behind in time. I was waiting to have any clients, but it's just about the hectic scrolling through social media about so much information, both for education and news, that has made me postpone all of my laptop-front duties day by day.
But, this time I think I want to finish my draft, so here we go my story about the still doubted reflection about women as also me and my friend outside which is might be wrong, even though it may also a hoax, but many people who is got up some of issues, it a sign that they have a concern and want to share that story incase it has a learning through in. Let's get started!
Okay, so I had my unique habit to analyze many incidents in my life, or let's say I am a great thinker. But, I also have a weakness as a woman that I called it as an unintentional self-manipulation, which has led me to be a foolish one. Why are there people who are great thinkers but have a lack of perfection in their attitude? It's a kind of reason that every smart person in analysis may not be proper in their attitude. Because I think that both of them are different, although every attitude is centered on our brains. However, there is one thing that might be a cause of our attitude: it is an emotion: happy, sad, confused, excited, and many more.
So, while every person has a bad attitude, it can be a cause of the worst evaluation from your circle, and it is such an easy and common thing in our lives. Then, some people might accuse you of being manipulative, if they just have to seen you from your outer skin or they are just seen you as a person who not really aware from its social relationships. The manipulative can be seen from how far your attitude is noticed by many people who recognize you, if they can see you have a double personality in the way it's inversely different from what they ever knew, maybe you may be perceived as manipulative by them.
However, the differential on how your attitude is recognized by them is still good enough if you know your behavior. Somehow, a fake person is the one who lack from a good behavior, but in a way that behavior becomes weak, is happen in many things that surround you, and sometime make it madness. Then, we have two options on how to react to those of the anxious. Are you the team of forgiving or still dependent on your emotions?
Despite which team you are on, you must have your own strong behavior. Because it is somehow always noticed in myself that when I become a foolish person, that is the time when I lack in my behavior. So then it might be every person who seen me can bind me as a manipulator.
Lack of behavior is a kind of situation that does not need any medicine because it is the way to recovery that is needed from your inner fight. I also pinned that its survace more like a dead-feel and numb because of the behavior cycling is really transparent, that we never know how the time there's being spent and the time there's being long in ours.
Then, what kind of solution to these problems?
Streamlined Your Connection to Being a Part of These Lives, Is One Kind of The Solution
For me, life is such a forcement which is happen because I do not realy enjoyed in the line when I always bring myself as the first person who gets effort to be a rational person. It rational have many meanings, such as being a person who does not really depends by the conditions around me or being independent and straight with many life targets to be a success and a worthwhile life.
Unfortunately, I have a focus on not being my life's target, like having a marriage goal for the next year, and so on. Then, many of my family members who normalize these conditions, and that's why I am still at a pace to settle my attention by not just looking at the hype and making my own life paths, by only my effort, and sometimes it's really boring, tiring, and full with pessimistic.
The only life hearts for these condition is by knowing that you are enough by your social connections and getting your roles done. Having a role in your life is really meaningful, it is a sign that you were among many people too for still alive and contributing as well.
However, there are also many cases of self-harm in ourselves in cites our feeling for its social moment. I was relying on myself as a sensitive mind, and I grabbed whatever social environment around me as not alright. The moment when I am overthinking with many people around me who are not really interested in my attention in our social life, made me glitch to connect with them. Maybe it is better for me to just focus on myself, however loosing that potent motivation, such as real social proof, really hurts my entire day.
Then, maybe my problem was so rough for me a lot, but I also want to give some advice, both for my self-motivational and a message for many women outside there who overwhelming in the social criticism and have the same condition as mine, who are neglected by society itself. We should be brave and be vocal for our roles in this life. Then, when knowing that might be your social is unliking what your stage in this life, does not mean we lose many things in pursuing a perfect life.
We must know our behavior is being louder, that make people around us accept what our life would be proper because we make it apart. Behavior can be found through many aspects of ourselves, except for our attitude. It is about what we seen into our world, and our perception about many things insists. It is about the little things we serve for many people around us and anykind of our social-language throughout we preserve it.
The conclusion and what I learnt from this article
The points of all of these key massages is:
- Self-manipulative is a signal for many of us as women from our universe that we must restart our lives and get our introspection to be softer and friendlier to many aspects
- We need to not overthink about what people evaluated us, and we must focus on pursuing a well-balanced life -- so as not to overload our mental health
- However, as women, we should change our behavior so as not to be manipulated both for ourselves and for many people around us
So, that's the point of this blog: my advice for us not to be trapped by self-manipulation, though by coincidence. I hope all of we are have a mental health balance and be a leader for ourselves and among our circle.
