Big props to ladies who buy themselves gifts while claiming that their husbands or boyfriends are the ones who buy them.
Women who can afford to buy both tiny and large items for themselves, but who attribute the praise to their husbands.
Aunty, what's the matter?
Isn't it in your head to take credit for yourself?
Are you easily swayed by compliments?
Una do well ( you guys did good).
A man would take pride in his accomplishments.
He brags about how much money he makes and how he can buy whatever he wants or needs.
Women, on the other hand, would buy things for themselves and pretend it was a male who bought them gifts.
Do you have a strong aversion to being complimented or earning your own accolades.
Or is it that you're attempting to stroke a man's ego because you don't want others or the world to know your man is underpaid?
Or are you attempting to pepper(harsh) your single pals, the ones who don't have men who spend on them or who aren't dating?.
Trying to make a man bigger when he isn't already enormous isn't worth it.
When the truth comes out after all the falsehoods you've said, no one will believe whatever you say.
It's also critical that, as single women, you date or marry very secure men for whom you won't have to lie.
A friend told me about a woman in her forties she knew who wasn't married but celebrated her birthday every year.
She'd send herself a cake and other gifts, claiming it was from her boyfriend.
When there were holes in her story for each birthday, sh*t hit the ceiling.
She had obviously forgotten the gist she had given her coworkers for their birthday the previous year.
There are also married women who are the primary breadwinners in their households but pretend that all of the finances come from their husbands in order to present a misleading picture to the world.
Don't construct a false picture of what isn't true, even if your partner isn't well-paid and you can purchase more things than he can.
Do you believe a male would behave similarly?
A man would not be the breadwinner of his family and give the credit to his wife .
Why do you have to shrink to make your man feel big?
What good would it have done me to state that my husband (for example) purchased me my Samsung note when I bought it myself?
Why?
Something I paid for with my own cash?
To deprive someone else of acclaim?
Hehehehe.
That is something he would never want me to do.
When I bought mine, I also bought his.
DUMP HIM if you're dating and feel compelled to lie about things you buy yourself and pass the credit to your partner, or if you're dating a man who wants to collect the credit in order to deflect the complement from you.
You must take a seat and reassess your situation!
Have enough self-esteem to accept your own accolades without feeling embarrassed. Thank you. ☺
Thank you very much for your time
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