Love is a sensation that is felt by a heart. The cliched definition. But Love is more than that. People may love each other at first sight or people may love after knowing the other person for a long time. Why is that? It's the connection. Yes, felt by heart. But it's more than that. A connection between two souls. Often it requires an understanding but sometimes love occurs without any understanding.
For some, love is submission.
And for some, love is acceptance.
Have you ever thought that why fully independent people submit themselves in love? What drives them to do that?
People who do not like any other person in their space accept their significant other in their life. And they become obsessed.
Do they plan it all or is it spontaneous?
Of course! It is spontaneous. Love is spontaneous.
"We accept the love we think we deserve"
A line from my favorite movie: The Perks Of Being a Wallflower.
As a young woman, if I am working towards my highest self and I am constantly trying to criticize myself constructively. Then, I will attract the one who resonates with my soul. And We will love each other spontaneously. I, specifically, won't make lists to decide what kind of a man should I fall in love with. I will love without even noticing it.
I will set my soul free and will allow my significant other to come towards me. It is mystical,metaphysical, and ethereal.
If I am careful about myself, I will attract the one who takes care of himself and me.
The decisions I will make will focus on the present time. I will always focus on what is present. Because it is all about time. Past, present and future. My present is past in the future. The future is present in the future. But if I focus on what is present at the moment, I will do well in the past, the present, and the future.
All of it combines rationality and irrationality of the idea of love and it's perception.