A space for reflection |LOH #137 (EN-ES)

Greetings, my dear ladies of Hive!

This week, Hive account@tibaire brings us two very interesting questions, as always it is a great invitation to reflection and to put on the table our opinions regarding varied topics, sometimes complex and others, some less complicated.

The first question:

1️⃣Do you think that in these times it is still a taboo to talk about female sexual pleasure? What do you know about your clitoris? Do you feel that you have total control over your sexual pleasure or do you simply leave the job to your partner?

I think that in these times it is still a taboo to talk about sexuality in general, and much more about female sexual pleasure; although some steps have been taken to educate, especially young people to be aware of their sexuality and live it responsibly.

I am one of those who think that the more communication with our partner, the better the relationship will be, in all senses, because it gives room for greater understanding and to foster mutual interest in pleasing the desires and needs of us as women and of the partner as part of a relationship that should be reciprocal.

On the other hand, I do have control of my sexual pleasure and share it with my partner for the enjoyment and satisfaction of both of us. This clarity has allowed our 30-year relationship to still be active and satisfying.

The second question:

2️⃣ Water is Life and it is also a non-renewable resource. There are countries where access to water is very limited, while in other countries water is wasted. Tell us how aware you are of this future problem (water scarcity) and how you manage this valuable resource.

This question made me relive everything I had to go through in my country because of the lack of water. Seasonally, you could count months without this liquid reaching the pipes of my home.

Unfortunately, I have already suffered in my own flesh what it means to live without water; not having water on a daily basis is an evil that affected us and, even today, continues to affect my fellow countrymen.

Now, in this country to which I emigrated, I am grateful every day for the water I have at all times, I am grateful to be able to bathe under a shower, because for many years I had to do it with small containers. We Venezuelans know how to manage a little water to do the chores around the house and to keep our needs more or less covered.

Today, I am very careful and do not allow a single drop of water to be wasted.