Character is one of the most important things considered before thinking of relationship.
In this guide I will examine how character can affect a relationship and guess what? It shall be accompanied with a story.
What is character?
To my understanding, character is what makes a human, it is independent of gender class. As a woman, there are some characters you need to exhibit as you grow on with age and there are some you need to stop and let go.
A short story
After my graduation from the university, I headed to apply for a vacant job. The job was a position of a secretary and as at then I was earning $200 per month.
My boss was a lady and she’s currently divorced with the fourth husband now as at the time of writing this article.
I realized the problem was from her. You can be friends with her now and within a minute, she changes and shout at you at a slightest misunderstanding. I couldn’t even talk about the way I was been treated by her.
Fast forward to the reason of writing this article, I found out that my former boss was a gossiper; she was also a drug addict and a chain smoker. I don’t believe the listed thing determines character of someone because I even have friends who drink and smoke but they are still nice.
My boss picks up quarrel at a slight misunderstanding with anyone.
What annoys me most is that she can exchange words with you even though she has never known you before. She called a co-worker a prostitute and poor parent training just for coming late to work for a day and she is fast in sacking her employees.
She is over 50 years of age because the last time I saw her identity credentials, it was written 29th Of December, 1972. Then when I made some research about her, I discovered the way she treats people is same way she treats her husband but she doesn’t have a child.
Purpose of writing this article
The type of character you have will determine how your wishes will be fulfilled. There is one thing women should know about, I have been to places, travelled out and I discovered that as a woman, once you have a very bad character that no one can stay with you, you might not be able to have a child. But shockingly, my former boss I am referring to in this article I heard she lost her life yesterday. That’s what prompted me into writing this article.
Lessons to learn
Live free with people
If people offends you forgive them but you can still avoid them if they don’t add value to you.
Avoid gossips and malice, it kills quicker.
Change some old behavior such as “ if you don’t talk to me first, I won’t talk to you” a friend of mine once exhibited this not until she also applied it in her relationship one day and ended up with regrets though she was chased out of her matrimonial home but later realized her mistakes and corrected them.
Read books
There are some characters that as you grow, it forms you over time. There are some characters that you can drop as time proceeds.
Do have an awesome day, thanks for reading.