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We live in a world we are most women do not want to undergo the stress of childbearing because the feel like it's going to put their body out of shape make them look older make them have big tummy , saggy breast and how many other things that come with pregnancy and child bearing.
Surrogacy involves a lot of legal processes because it has to do with life and death and is a very vital issue but any to humans and families involved.
I haven't actually really seen it happen I've only experienced it in movies and most times no need is not handled carefully it all goes wrong at the end it is either the mother comes back for the child that the end of the day after signing and agreement that she would have no custody of the child or something else goes on and people get manipulated in the process.
Surrogacy is not something that I would want to do or I would advise anybody to do except in cases that cannot are beyond our control. Such as when a woman cannot give birth to a child of her own due to some health reasons and when a man is not fit to get a woman pregnant that is when a man is impotent. This cases call for desperate measures which include surrogacy when there is no way out.
For the sake of the intending mother the baby and the couple who need the child a lot of legal processes has to be done to protect their rights some families can be wicked the heart of Man of the wicked like we know there are some people who would actually come to our agreement with you and later eliminate you because of their own personal insecurities that you might one day come back for the child that you find an agreement not to come back for these are the disadvantages of being a surrogate mother.
Is the surrogate mother supposed to have a say in the life of the child , in the right sense when you want to be a fuel gate mother for a couple you agree on a stipulated price that they would pay you and the way is should be is that they pay you take care of you till you give birth and after that you leave.
For some people they decide to give a little bit of chance to the mother to breastfeed her child for those that want exclusive breastfeeding you don't just give birth immediately and leave. Because some people take advantage of it and then when they give birth to the baby some of them would want to become the second wife through the first wife out and all the drama that goes on .
The truth is that some of these things that happened in movie they are real they have to man is wicked very very wicked. Some people they have wanted surrogate mothers and they decided to choose people that are close to them or their friends have ended up regretting it no matter how you go through the legal process manipulation always comes to play in one way .
In my opinion as a surrogate mother the deal is for you to be paid and you give birth to a child give the child to the intending parents and take your leave as what is signed in the document. I will strongly say that the surrogate mother does not have any right over the child as long as this agreement has been drafted or less it is bridged.
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