Hello beautiful ladies of hive, how are you all doing today? it's a beautiful day so let's make it memorable huh!
This topic came across my mine this morning and I was thinking about it in all rounds, I realized this is something everyone kinda knows but only few put it to practice. And I believe this will change alot here too so I decided to bring it here to my #ladiesofhive
Have you seen ladies with less beauty but beautiful souls and personalities?
Have you seen ladies with less Beauty yet ugly souls and personalities?
Have you seen ladies with full Beauty and lovely souls and personalities?
Have you seen ladies with full Beauty yet ugly souls and personalities?
I have heard in most cases that it is not just about the beauty of the body, but it is all about the beauty within, and in some cases I have seen extremely less Beautiful people with same hugely attitudes, and I have seen the beautiful ones with same attitude as well, and truly I have come to an agreement with the saying of "Not judging a book by its cover"
I have come across people who see a lot of bad things about someone and not stop talking about it, and when I decided to go close to that same person, I find out that that person actually have a sweet personality more than some of the people that complains. what you see to be very ugly with bad attitude, is the most beautiful with amazing soul for someone else. we only need to understand life in general. we have different people with different personality grow up from different backgrounds, so you can't expect what you feel you want to be gotten from everyone. I can assure you that you yourself don't give to them what they expect from you as well. so now you see that we all have our good and dark sides living with us. so no matter how sweet you think you are, there is always someone out there that doesn't just like you for no reason, and there is nothing you can actually do about that. I also want you to know that there are some people out there that their full-time job is to look down on people, and always find fault in people; so if you come across such people, don't be deceived. people only want to see how they expect you to look like, and does that even matter at all? non of that matters. So now that you know that no matter how you try to impress someone they will still not see what you are trying to bring to the table; they only want to see you look like what they imagine you to look like.
So should we just leave life like we don't care? or we should try so hard to impress them?
well the first thing that you don't expect others to wish you well first of all, I mean everybody want to be more prettier than someone else in most cases, so what makes you think they will get impressed? In my own take, I think you should discover who you are first, so whatever look you're giving to yourself should be look you are actually comfortable with not because you are trying to prove a point or impress someone, they will never be impressed.
Do you know that some people work so hard to improve how they can actually humiliate and look down on your? Just to make you see less about yourself?
Don't be deceive by their words. It is always important to note that you know about the good and the bad, always improving on yourself should be your top priority and not thinking of how to make others feel insecure. and if you are that type that easily feel insecure about your potentials, then you should stop that right now. nothing or no one should make you feel less about yourself okay?
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