Hello ladies, I saw this post from my favourite author 
Growing as a child in the midst of five beautiful girls. I have always been the odd person if I must described it that way.
Often time my siblings will jokingly tell my parents to do a DNA test for me as they don't see any trace of resemblance in me.
Maybe I was just created different.
Like talking my nightlife life, my siblings find fun in it, like the way they talk about it, and me on the other side find it so uncomfortable and boring. Like I don't understand how my siblings enjoy the loud music and everyone just dancing and catching fun. Like my sister's can piece my eyes if I there say I'm not coming with them.
Growing up I was used to going out to eatery just watch a movie, take some popcorn and then make a video and go back to the house. Somehow I feel maybe it's because I don't know how to dance, and I don't take alcohol, that's why I can't relate with their vibes. But along the line I discovered it's not any of these reasons.
I remember once, my elder sis took us out, naturally they didn't want me to follow them because they feel I'll make their outing boring. But ignorance me, I want to feel among😂
So I succeeded in following them. At first glance, and from a distance, when I heard the music. I thought they were doing a life band, so I asked my sis, "Are they doing programme"? Come and hear laugh, like my siblings laughed the hell out of me and if not that they're my siblings i would have been so shy.
So when we got to the place, everyone requested for their favourite alcohol brand while I place order for malt... And my sister were like, you see why I said you should not follow us.
We sat down there for quite awhile and my sisters were having fun. I was so busy with my phone and all of a sudden my phone went off.
Like you can imagine that feelings. I sat down there totally lost, like everything became annoying and I told my sisters to take me home.
They were like " we've not even started. I sat down there and finished two bottles of malt with plenty suya. But I wasn't even feeling it because to me the place was noisy.
After that I had to come to agreement with myself that nightlife is not my kind of place. So I learned to accept myself that way
Till today my siblings still talk about that day, and they make fun out of it.
I'm sure you'll like to share your experience about this too. please let me hear your thoughts in the comments section.
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