Feliz inicio de fin de semana bellas damas de esta comunidad 🤩, estaba un poco desaparecida por muchos motivos pero he vuelto nuevamente 🤭.
. Happy start of the weekend beautiful ladies of this community 🤩, I was a bit missing for many reasons but I'm back again 🤭.
para el Ladies Of Hive Community Contest #148, ya que para mí son temas que toco en ocasiones con familiares y amigos, así que aquí mi opinión ☺️.1️⃣ Hoy en día, algunos padres pasan a sus hijos la responsabilidad familiar después de graduarse de la escuela. Como padre, ¿está de acuerdo con esto o permitirá que sus hijos carguen con cargas que se supone que no son suyas? Siendo niño, ¿es necesario que pagues el laborioso esfuerzo de tus padres aunque eso signifique que tengas que sacrificar tu libertad?
. 1️⃣ Today, some parents pass on family responsibility to their children after they graduate from school. As a parent, are you okay with this or will you allow your children to carry burdens that are not supposed to be theirs? As a child, is it necessary for you to pay for your parents' hard work even if it means you have to sacrifice your freedom?
I personally think and consider that children should be children, none of us as parents should put on their shoulders the weight of the responsibilities of an adult, since a child is not psychologically prepared for this.
Although there are situations where children should assume a little more responsibility, such as helping to take care of a sibling or helping with household chores, we cannot condemn them to answer for what we as parents and adults should do, one thing is to ask them for a little collaboration and another is to burden them with what we do, otherwise they will grow up with more frustrations than anything else.
All this also depends on the way in which each person is raised, this goes beyond everything, because if we are raised telling us that from childhood we must assume adult responsibilities, even if we want to break the mold at some point we will unwittingly do the same to our children.
No child should pay the sacrifice that parents make for them and stop being what they are, children. Since going a little further, they do not decide to be born and come to this world, we are the ones who decide what we are going to do and if things do not go as we thought or planned, they are not to blame for this so that they suffer because of us.
So, in conclusion, I believe that no child should take on adult responsibilities, much less stop living their childhood to carry things that do not correspond to them.
2️⃣ Si eres uno de los sostén de la familia o proveedor financiero de tu familia, ¿cómo equilibras tu trabajo y tu vida para que tu bienestar no se vea comprometido? Cuéntanos cómo disfrutas tu vida, tus pasatiempos o la fuente de entretenimiento que haces, para no dejarte consumir por el estrés. (Las personas que no son sostén de familia también pueden unirse)
2️⃣ If you are a breadwinner or financial provider for your family, how do you balance your work and life so that your well-being is not compromised? Tell us how you enjoy your life, your hobbies or the source of entertainment you do, so you don't get consumed by stress. (Non-breadwinners can also join)
This case is a bit complicated, since as human beings sometimes we do not know how to distribute our time and reach a middle ground and that is when the blessed stress absorbs us and becomes present.
In my case, I am not the entire financial provider for my family but I have always worked and brought money home. And in one of the jobs I had, I had to work between 10-12 hours. Before I had my daughter this didn't affect me at all since being on my own I didn't have a compelling reason to have more time at home.
However, once my baby girl was born this really affected me and stress levels were high, as I did not have the time to share with my daughter, let alone get to go out and share good times with my family.
Even so, in the little time I had, I always looked for ways to spend pleasant moments with them, to share even if it was at home, having a meal or some activity together. But I must say that this is not easy when we have a job that consumes all day, all our time, our energy and life.
This is why and since then I am an advocate that if we need to look for something else to have more time with our children we should do it, because we are replaceable in any job but never in the life of our family and much less in the life of our children.
That's my take on these topics beautiful ladies of @LadiesOfHive 🌼, see you in a next installment 😊.
Las abrazo fuertemente 🫂
. I hug them tightly 🫂
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|| All text was written by myself
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