Hello dear friends of the community, receive greetings and many blessings to all of you, today I want to share some tips that will allow us to know how to treat our children after a certain age..
On many occasions we make the mistake of thinking that since our children are grown up they don't need our guidance and help.
The fact that they are already teenagers does not mean that they already know what they do or what is good, at this stage parents do not know how to act and we lose the horizon of our functions as parents, or even worse, we transfer it to third parties.
When we do not know how to act at any stage, it is advisable to seek guidance from experts in the area, and we must return to the role we have as parents.
Even when children are confident and autonomous adolescents, it is necessary for them to know that we will be there for them, because they will always need us, with the difference that it is a new stage in their lives and the help they require is different.
This is the stage of barter negotiation, a win-win.
Your authority as a parent is no longer imposed, you have to reconcile compromises that benefit both of you. Example: watch your favorite show or go to the game you have, first you help me if you help me set up the room.
The information and guidance of good and bad, you should know it from your mouth, and not from the mouth of others, or worse yet create a taboo, certain topics with your children, all topics should be discussed by parents, and if you do not know how to do it seek guidance from an expert in the area.
Sexuality should be accompanied and oriented, so that they can discover themselves, it should not be forbidden or even worse, imposed.
We must give our children the confidence to bring their friends to our home, so we can evaluate the behavior of friends, and know if they should apply some corrective measures, "eye if necessary" must be done with caution and intelligence.
We do nothing when we criticize his lack of control. Remember that he is living a new stage in his life, it is necessary to teach him techniques on how to deal with them.
It is a time of significant changes, and he needs love, understanding and acceptance of his personality.
We must remember that they are going to copy our attitudes, for that reason we must show our best version to be proud of them for being good men and women..
Well I say goodbye on this occasion thanking God and of course you for visiting my blog, wishing you many blessings and success in your life..