¡Hola comunidad de Damas de hive! Es un gran placer saludarlos nuevamente y poder participar en este Concurso comunitario Damas de Hive n.° 178, para ello paso a responder la primera premisa:
Hello Ladies of hive community! It is a great pleasure to greet you again and to be able to participate in this community contest Ladies of Hive n.° 178, for this I will answer the first premise:
1️⃣ Las mujeres nos caracterizamos por realizar varias actividades al mismo tiempo. De alguna manera siempre equilibramos nuestros horarios para cumplirlos todos, aunque a veces eso nos traiga un cansancio excesivo. Mi pregunta es: ¿qué haces cuando te sientes agotado? ¿Cómo regulas tu estado físico, mental y emocional para volver a ser tú mismo?
1️⃣ Women are known for doing several activities at the same time. Somehow we always balance our schedules to meet them all, even though sometimes that brings us excessive fatigue. My question is: what do you do when you feel exhausted? How do you regulate your physical, mental and emotional state to get back to being yourself?
Pues sí, las mujeres somos multifacéticas, ya que hemos desarrollado diferentes roles, tenemos una amplia gama de intereses, de habilidades y desde pequeñas estamos en el ojo del huracán, ya que somos las ayudantes de nuestras mamás y vamos adquiriendo experiencia desde muy temprana edad. Cuando somos amas de casa aprendemos a tener el control absoluto de la casa y de otras actividades especialmente las extracurriculares de nuestros hijos Así que cuando somos madres nos enfrentamos a una marejada de actividades , además que pasamos a ser la doméstica, la cocinera, la lavandera, la psicóloga, la enfermera, la maestra, que abarca ser dibujante, ser profesor de matemáticas, de inglés, física, química, y aún con todo eso, también psicóloga, la psíquica que tiene que saber dónde está todo, en cualquier momento y en cualquier lugar.
Yes, we women are multifaceted, since we have developed different roles, we have a wide range of interests, skills and since we are little we are in the eye of the hurricane, since we are the helpers of our mothers and we acquire experience from a very early age. When we are housewives we learn to have absolute control of the house and other activities, especially the extracurricular activities of our children. So when we are mothers we are faced with a tidal wave of activities, plus we become the domestic, the cook, the laundress, the psychologist, the nurse, the teacher, which includes being a draftsman, a teacher of mathematics, English, physics, chemistry, and even with all that, also a psychologist, the psychic who has to know where everything is, at any time and in any place.
No es para menos que al finalizar el día, estamos agobiadas del cansancio y queriendo deslastrarnos de tanta presión, yo tengo mis métodos y lo voy repartiendo poco a poco, durante el día el primero es escribir; estas publicaciones me relajan, como no tienen una idea, me tranquilizan y hago como una catarsis. También bordo, tejo, me encanta leer, y por eso me doy mi tiempo y mi espacio para hacerlo, de a poquito, pero lo hago. Además, todas las tardes, me reúno con mis amigas en la bailoterapia y allí salimos rejuvenecidas y activadas, conversamos, nos expresamos, disfrutamos el estar juntas, bailamos y eso renueva el espíritu y vuelve a comenzar. Llegó a casa en la tarde a terminar mis labores, para comenzar al día siguiente con mi caminata matutina, de una hora.
It is no wonder that at the end of the day, we are overwhelmed with fatigue and want to get rid of so much pressure, I have my methods and I am distributing it little by little, during the day the first one is to write; these publications relax me, as they do not have an idea, they calm me down and I do as a catharsis. I also board, I knit, I love to read, and that's why I give myself time and space to do it, little by little, but I do it. In addition, every afternoon, I meet with my friends at the dance therapy and there we leave rejuvenated and activated, we talk, we express ourselves, we enjoy being together, we dance and that renews the spirit and starts all over again. I get home in the afternoon to finish my chores, to start the next day with my one hour morning walk.
Regarding the second question: 2️⃣ What do you think of the phrase "family comes first", do you agree with that, or do you prefer the phrase "I am my top priority". I would like to know what you think.
disfrutando en la playa/enjoying the beach
There are cases where we have to keep a certain balance between the family and ourselves, both are important entities, the family on the one hand is the precursor of inclusion and diversity, due to the links between family members, is the first space where we develop, is where we learn to respect ourselves, to strengthen our values and form our character, where we live our first experiences, under the tutelage of our parents and something of great importance gives us security and develops our self-esteem, but most important of all is love.
Sí yo no siento amor por misma ¿que amor voy a ser a los demás? El amor que se comparte en la familia viene del amor que cada uno de sus integrantes sienten por sí mismos y eso consolida el amor que tienen para compartir. Entonces llego a la conclusión de que tanto la familia como yo misma y cada uno de los integrantes, son importantes para fortalecer los vínculos que están sujetos por lazos de amor, sino hay amor no hay nada.
If I do not feel love for myself, what love will I have for others? The love that is shared in the family comes from the love that each of its members feel for themselves and that consolidates the love they have to share. Then I come to the conclusion that both the family and myself and each of the members are important to strengthen the bonds that are subject to love pornlazos, if there is no love there is nothing.
Muchas gracias por visitarme y es muy emocionante recibir sus comentarios, los sabré apreciar. ¡Muchos cariños!
Thank you very much for visiting me and it is very exciting to receive your comments, I will appreciate them. Much love!
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📓 traducción por/ translation by Traductor de DeepL
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