It is right to share your financial details with your spouse?
That is the right thing it suppose to be but I found out that spouse always betray the other partner because of selfishness but if you have the right understanding spouse sharing your financial details always help in straighten the relationship and help the two partners on how to plan for the futures of their children.
*Sharing your financial details also reduce extravagant spending especially for us women it help us to go for needs and not want, once we are in the market we always see many things that we want to have, before we know it, what took us to the market we end up not getting it, so sharing your financial details, to me, it help in discipline one.
When my elder sister got married, her husband brought the idea of join account which my sister welcome the idea and that was how the started.
She deny her self of luxury life all in the name of building a better future for her children.
She kept doing that till after 2 years and she called the attention of the husband concerning the join account, she said the have to start raising a structure before the children will start coming.
Unknowingly to hear the spouse is busy squandering the money on his people while my sister is there starving herself and people around her, I remember my father called her a stingy person because she always says I don't have.
That was how he was just looking for excuse to give my sister but it reach some point that the lie get exhausted he has no choice than to open up.
Oh!no, that really break my sister to pieces but when we had about it we just have to encourage her but I promise myself never to make that mistake.
But here am I fully in join account with my spouse and is really helpful, we have achieved a lot with this four years of being together
- It build our trust
- It gives us more reason to respect each other
- It gives us more room for complement
- It strengthen our communication
So to me is right to share your financial details with your spouse.
But I will advise to know your spouse first before jumping to that in order to avoid hard I know.
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