Wow-that's a tough call. No one should ever put up with abuse. It can be hard to break away from it, especially if it's what you've known your whole life. I'm not sure that is the issue with why this lady stays with the man or not.

Ultimately, the friend might need help, but perhaps the friend who was 'used' needs to tell the friend that she really is free to walk out; she just needs to do it and seek help and protection if necessary. Depending on the friend's feelings for her now, she might choose to help again.

Trust is a hard thing to earn back once broken. I honestly am not sure what I would do; I would have to seriously think on it and pray about it.

Thanks for sharing and have a lovely day! !LADY