If very difficult to accept is like the other day I was arguing with a friend who said that she came into the world just to make happy and gave me a lot of laughter because we believe that denying some things we live better there are people who believe that life is like a plate of food where you can choose happiness and remove the pain and life is a duality whether we like it or not we will experience both some later some sooner, but they are inevitable things in this life.