Good day my lovely people, it's fair to say that exams week has been hectic which has made my work here on Hive really slow but I saw this contest topic which was very tempting to me that I couldn't let it pass which is why I didn't to join the trend.
Anytime I watch a kid, pupil or student bullying their fellow mate either in the movies or real life what first of all usually comes to my mind is that there is problem at home, and by me saying there's problem at home I mean maybe at home the father maltreat the mother or the child is neglected at home and he seeks validation or attention from outsider, or he or she is a spoilt brat at home who thinks that the world revolves around them so the world should actually pause for them or there's just problem at home that affects them psychological which makes them take it out on others.
How I would address bullying should be dependent on the situation from where I am addressing it, if I am in that scenario or place where the bullying is taking place or if I am to discourage someone from bullying like taking a talk on it, then addressing them would deserve different approach to it. Addressing it from the perspective of being in the situation itself would be me standing up for myself and making sure to point out to the bully that bullying only makes you Inferior and lesser of a human.
Before even answering for if my children where to be victims of bullying, I would love to note that the kind of confidence, self worth and self value I would teach my child would be a kind that makes that child know his or her right and worth anywhere they find themselves and this would avoid the case of been a victim, but if anyone's child become a victim of bullying I would recommend therapy to them and also to report the case to the school authority so that immediate effect and changes would be made or else I change the school of that child, what I might also do is suggest help for both the bully and his or her family so as to amend what ever is happening at home.
Bullying is one thing that I dreaded so much that I always make people think I am that strong and smart kid which can't be messed around with, and this approach has helped me out in school and it's even helping me out up till now, say no to bullying and encourage healthy growth.
Peace out my lovely people, have a wonderful day ahead.
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