Hello Ladies of Hive!! This is my 1st time in this community. I am happy to subscribe in here and meeting ladies that could relate to my stories and vice versa to theirs.
I am married currently in LDR since my husband is working abroad, with 2 kids so expect that my story will be about marriage & family life. I hope you will enjoy and finish my blog!
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This quote from one of socmed stroked me!! Being in Long Distance Relationship communication is only thing that you can hold on to for the relationship to stand and maintain harmoniously. The challenge is, how will the communication be maintained with consistency.
Here is our story:
This is our normal daily routine. We do the video call from 9:30 in the morning as soon as he arrives home (they rented a room together with his workmate) from work since he is on night duty from 12:30am - 8:30am with 1 hour allowance for travel. The video call lasts until I arrive home from the farm or depends on my battery and load. Sometimes it lasts until he wakes up to work.
Sometimes when there is an urgent matter that needs to discuss, he will be calling during his meal break. Sometimes he calls out of the blue, just a random moment.
These are the normal daily updates:
Still he is updated and in supervision during the construction of the gestating pen. He is in monitor with the design and the materials to be used.
While eating, he just fall asleep.
He is teaching or coaching me on the poultry chores. He is updated with the lates situation with the chicks, the hens, the eggs etc. until he fall asleep.
Updated with the newly born piglets.
In short, he is updated of everything that happens. During his day off, that is the only time that he can stay longer than the normal call, so he can have a small talk to our 2 kids.
The normal scenario is, the video call is on going while I am working, eating and everything. Sometimes until we both sleeping.
This is our normal way of greeting good morning & good night.
One time, we had our argument and we ended up not talking with each other..those normal scenario turned into sending emojis. I don't even bother to take the initiative to call or to chat him. Until he did the initiative and without hesitation, I gave in..So like magic, we do the normal except to the greetings of good night & good morning. I ignored it and play as if it is okay with me without it but deep inside I was so sad. Take a look at my screenshot above, no greetings at all just and an emoji and call logs.
Until one night, he sent a good night message when I was already sleeping and was on his duty at work so when I wake up in the morning, I greeted him the good morning the way we used to. I know that he just heard my silent words. I did not say any thing about it and tried to be casual.
I finally conclude that it is only him can understand my unspoken words. He is so observant and sensitive in everything.It's just that sometimes he has his pride to feed.lol! Having this kind of person is rare and I felt loved!ayyehh!!
This might be a little thing but if remain unresolved, it will cost a relationship.
I hope you enjoy and relate with my story. Just comment below the similar scenario happens with yours.
Its me,
Keekay