There are times when we feel like this place we have gotten to will be the final bus stop because it is believed that we have somehow found the almost perfect person or thing. Although along the line, a lot of things can go wrong and you would realize that what you have been experiencing was not the major thing but a side piece of what was yet to happen.
Especially a relationships where people tend to be kind and nice during the first few weeks or month but later on the start showing their true characters which proves to be deadly and dangerous or violent at the same time.
Personally I have had experiences like this where at the Beginning it will feel all Rosy but later reality begins to dawn on me. One thing I have come to realize is that people try to live a kind of fantasy at the beginning of a certain career or relationship but reverse is the case when you see them properly and analyze the situation of things to real life happenings you will see that even the best things in life are not enough to give you peace and calmness that is required to live healthy.
For instance, when you meet a person newly you would realize that they want to talk to you every time, they create time to give you attention, they are always there and they are generally nice.
Trust me, there would be a character or something that would piss you off about them in the long run. In this modern days we have gotten to a stage where we realize that the beauties of life would come and go but the reality of it would definitely come to stay and that is what we have to deal and live with over time.
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What was it that you clung to tightly (an ideal, a person, a stage of life) that life forced you to let go of? What was the emotional process of accepting that it was no longer part of your present?
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