Hello beautiful women, Growing up, my father had always wanted more boys than girls but unfortunately, he had more girls than boys.
His reasons where;
- Girls are more of a liability
- Girls will end up in a man's house after spending and investing so much on them
- Men are more likely to look back and take care of their family after marriage
- Girls are weaker vessels
And some other reasons known to him. Well that is true to an extent but years later as we grew up, his mindset began to change as we proved him wrong. I will be talking about a few things using some stock photos with their image source below.
Ask your self as a lady, what do you have to offer. What is your character like, how well do you relate with people, what do people have to say about you, what are you doing now that will prepare you for marriage or a bigger picture tomorrow.
LET US TALK ON CHARACTER
As a lady, your character speaks alot about your future. Some ladies can be very rude, lazy, dirty yet they imagine a beautiful and succesful future.
That is not going to happen if you cannot work on your self now. The way you are today will only define who you will be in the feature if you do not do somthing about it.
Imagine given a company to manage at a platter of gold, that company will full apart,why? You have not succeded in managing your self as a young lady so how else do you expect to go about somthing big as that or even manage a home when you get married.
When you are rude how else do you relate with your customers and staffs to keep them. Your character now will go a long way to make you successful tomorrow.
BEING AN ASSET
Some young laddies especially in Africa feel they are too young to start making money and fend for themselves. Well that is not true, you are never too young to break that limit.
Personally, it is an awsome expirience being independent, that moment when you do not have to wait until you are given to have what you desire.
Even in the home as a married woman, what else do you have to offer, how do you aid or support your husband. There is no other way to plan for that if not now. Your actions and decisions today will determine the outcome tomorrow. It all starts now.
There are a lot of things to talk about but i will end here.
Thank you