2️⃣ Do we keep contact with other women regularly, checking in if they require any assistance, sharing burdens between each other, and how?
In particular, every day I find more Sorority around me. I relate to many women and I see that every day there are more of us who choose to live in brotherhood and not in rivalry. May we all be vigilant of the multiplier effect with our thoughts and actions of this awakening... may it continue to be so.
15 years ago, the reality was different.
At all times and throughout history, the experiences of loyalty or betrayal, of solidarity or lack thereof, have been part of the psychic, emotional and spiritual garden for every woman to trust in herself, in her essence, in her being, and from there to regain trust among women; where contribution and brotherhood banish the conjured curse of rivalry, competition, competitiveness among all.
It's so nice that each of us has our own roles. But it is also magnificent when we as women are together in brotherhood, it is easier for us to discover together the light that is inside each one.
Around me, I have so many women I trust and who take care of me, I can only be grateful for having them in my life.
Personally, I participate with a group of women in various activities where we share meditation, yoga, conversations, emotional intelligence talks, painting, cooking, crafts in itinerant spaces that allow us to get closer to our emotions, to the discovery of our body and its ways of manifesting.
Within this group of women we are a support system, compassionate, generous so as not to blame anyone. It is to get out of being a victim to accept yourself and set limits, recover your autonomy, arm yourself with courage and make yourself responsible.
In all my years as a coach ontological I have found a universe of women who failed to study or develop the talent they wanted to meet social expectations, or to obey a social mandate, a family loyalty or alone have decided by "oppositionism".
I have accompanied so many to discover and then to develop their true vocations, gifts or talents and many of them from the age of 28 or 35, perhaps more as an experience of realization, of liberation from the “I have to”, of a true free will and of a keen listening to their inner voice... I respect myself here and always.
Furthermore, I hope that present mothers or future mothers will give the space, time and confidence so that young women can discern and make their decisions more from within than from what society expects of them like women.
Furthermore, I will continue to open this line of reflection in these parts.
This is part of a daily job, without magic formulas. All hand in hand with self-knowledge and the ability to relearn with stories and beliefs of women in growth and expansion that we talk about well-being, relationships and family, health and entrepreneurship, confident women who know how to do interesting things that prepare us to take new steps in life.
One day I realized that if I recognized myself in all of them, I could understand myself. We have to keep unraveling, unlocking and rearranging and without a doubt, the thorns that must be removed from our souls are painful in order to heal confidence and protect us from hopelessness and vaccinate us against bitterness.
We just need the approval of our own happiness and taste... That's also freedom. I don't want a monotonous world or dictated by anyone. I don't want to be a mass. I just want to be the individual that I am.... Woman.
Often, just a change of perception changes a story.
There are so many stories behind me... There are so many, so many sweet, joyful, fulfilling, rewarding, inspiring experiences, full of the purest love, that “Agape” love in which I believe...there are also experiences of games, deep pains, major challenges, indelible images of the soul... and from that pain there is also a lot of beauty, humility and spirituality.
Knowing how to choose, does not mean at any time submission or castration.
It is time to transcend the rupture of female lineages, and to know that we DO NOT need to be perfect and that only when we support ourselves and learn to recognize our attributes, which makes us feel less vulnerable, enhances our points of improvement which gives freedom to live from our humanity.
Of the most beautiful, funny memories full of mischief, trips to the Hacienda, releasing parrots, hunting iguanas, playing everything, going to school sleeping at home always so much to talk about and especially the joy I feel today and now when I see my first friends, they are sincere, spontaneous, simple they are always very close to me.
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