Date: July 25, 2022
Hello ladies of hive and hello all hivers. It's a second day of the week and it's a first day of the working days.
The ladies of hive community have another topic for us to write. I chose question number one and here it is.
When you have had all you can take and need to relax, how do you treat yourself? Give a description of what that looks like for you, and when was the last time that you treated yourself?
I am a house wife and a full time mom. Most of my time and most of my days evolve just within the house doing household chores and taking care of my son.
Time will come that I felt so tired and weary. I felt so lazy sometimes that I don't like to do anything inside the house. But laziness should not occupy myself in a long time because I still need to do it because no one will do it for me and at the end of the day everything should be done by me only.
There will also times that I felt so upset and so emotionally weak that I can easily cry over simple things.
When I really need to relax, I would ask my husband that we will go out and relax for a while.
How do I treat myself
Honestly I can't afford those threats that needed a lot of budget because I am not employed and my husband's salary is just enough for our needs. But I can still find simple ways to threat myself and I will always want it with my family.
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Going to a community plaza is the simpliest way to relax and threat myself. Going out from the four corners of our small house and be away from the noise of the vehicles passes along the highway in front of us will make me happy and relax. Seeing those children running and playing in the plaza will make my heart glad. I found it relaxing by just sitting on the ground or in the benches of grand stand doing nothing except making my eyes full with those happy faces. Ended it with simple snacks is satisfying for me.
We've done this last July 11, 2022 and I am hoping to have this atleast once a month.
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Going to a beach is another way of treating myself and again I will be more happy if I have my family with me.
Last July 18, 2022 is holiday here and on Sunday before that day we went to a beach together with my husband's workmates. My husband call me two days before if I want to go to the beach and off course my answer is yes if he have some fund for it. To make the long story short, we went to a beach and yes I had fun, we had fun, I have time to relax my mind and its a great time and place to unwind.
Time to unwind and treating our self for some relaxation is a need. Yes, you heard it right that it is a need because we are just humans who can felt tired and weary. Even machines need some rest how much more you and me. So, have time to relax and you don't need enough money to do it as we can find place to relax on. But if you can afford to have treats that needs more budget then it is much more better. Having it in simple way is good as it is also bringing big reward for yourself.
Ladies, always find time to relax.
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Thank you so much for reading.