one minute it's a yes for you the next it's not. So do they like you or not? Here are six signs that they're not into and aren't telling you.
Number one, they aren't engaged in your conversations. Take a close look at their face next time you're talking with them. No, not just their dreamy eyes. Notice whether they're actually listening to what you're saying during your dinner dates. And if they're engaged in your conversation, are they on their phone? Are they scanning around the room directionless. Are they looking at someone else or something else? Thier pasta perhaps? Well, I would too if I was eating good pasta, but that's besides the point. If they don't engage with you often on an emotional level, or even any level during your outings, then it looks like a na in the relationship department for you.
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Number two. They don't communicate or text consistently. Do they text you regularly? Check your phone. Go ahead and waiting. When's the last time they texted you? Eight hours ago? Eight days or eight years? Just kidding on the years part unless you're long lost friends but if they don't communicate with you often text or no text, it's a sign they don't care enough about you to pursue a deeper relationship.
Number three, you're the only one always making plans. Who's making the plans in the relationship who's asking who out, who's initiating the conversations about availability people, if they're not putting the effort in to even ask you out or at least hint at your availability, then they may not be into you. If they've gone distant and asking you out and you haven't seen any effort from them and going out and doing things with you in the real world. They may not be as interested as before as well.
Number four, your relationship with them is one sided. Are you both benefiting emotionally from this relationship? Are you both supporting each other hearing each other out? Or do they just come to you with their problems but don't listen to yours? Do they always pick the dates when you go out with them? Are they putting in extremely minimal effort? This could be a sign they aren't really into you for a long term setting. These signs indicate your relationship could be one sided, so it's best to sit down and talk about it. Or call it quits. There are more hardworking fish in the sea, ones that will mutually give you that attention and support you deserve.
Number five, they're just hearing what you have to say but not really listening. So we've covered engagement, but when you're discussing serious topics with them, are they really listening to you or just nodding along and then completely changing the topic? A healthy relationship requires communication and some active listening. Honesty is also key. If they cared about you, they would listen to what you have to say. Respond thoughtfully and continue with the conversation, especially if it's on a topic you care about. Why? Because they care about you.
And number six, they've told you that they aren't ready for a relationship. Buzzkill. But it's true. It's time to face the facts, my friend. If they told you they ready, they ain't ready. Even if they subtly hinted at it. Ask them or take the hint. It's best to be on the same page with your partner and help you so if they've told you that they aren't ready for a new chapter with you, or rather, they're ready to close the book on your potential romance, then it's time to close the chapter.
So do they like you or like you not ?