Hello everyone, it's good to be here again, it is the beginning of the new year and it will be great to have our lifestyle plan, thanks to community for the opportunity given to us to be able to put our thoughts in writing.
Though I don't really have any plan for family or any friend this year but my plan is to focus on myself. I've do that many times before and at the end of the day I don't see the reason why I should continue doing it. There was a time I dedicated myself to family and friends, if I did not see them I will call them or visit them, if there is anything they need my help with, I'm always willing to help and it's already tiring. To me I was trying to create a great and healthy family bound, but to them I'm a disturbance and some literary cut me off. They were no where to be find when I need them the most and it makes me look like someone with no family.
If you don't have money there is limit to what you can do because if they ask you for financial help and you are unable to render it then you are nothing to them and that is why I have decided to focus on myself and make them want me again because I'm tired on knocking on their shut door. Some even say it to my face that no money no friends.
I decided to distance myself from them because I don't like people to see me as a nuisance, I will just accept whatever life throw my way but deep down, I really want to visit them nevertheless. It doesn't matter if they don't appreciate my efforts. There are some of my family that I've not seen for a couple of years which I plan to check on maybe we can work out the misunderstanding between us and have an amazing year together in peace.
Also since I don't have friends offline I plan on making a lot of online friends maybe that will make this year more lively and meaningful.
Thanks for checking on my blog and have a wonderful day