Where there is love, there is some possessiveness and I've no hesitation to confess that we women are mostly become possessive about things and person we love in life. We women doesn’t like to share our very own things. If as a woman you are not possessive about things you love then I doubt on your womanhood, heheh. You could be exceptional in this way and I can't judge the character of each women around me.
The majority I saw, I'm just talking about the majority. Most of the women found possessive about things they love and they hardly share the love of their life. I'm not alter to it and personally I become possessive but I can't compare myself with other women, not necessary that we all women will be the same but true facts are that we are same in many ways.
I still can remember that how jealous and possessive I was! I've zero regret for being possessive about things I love. For me, if there is no possessiveness, there is no love and concern. If I care about things, I must become possessive, sometimes over possessive. Make sure your possessiveness doesn’t reach maximum level of it, excess everything bad and it same about our possessiveness.
People whose understand the motive behind your possessiveness, only deserve you. Your people will understand the love behind your possessiveness and know how to deal with it and keep you calm. It is easy to convince we women as we are understanding and caring. Its not self praising but I mostly met responsible women in my life and I found them being possessive about things they love to have in their life.
Favorite gadgets to favorite person everything should be our own. Once I had a dress that I liked most but when my sister wore the dress, I didn’t liked that and stopped wearing the dress for months and I was really bad as I can realize the over possessiveness attitude in me. I was bad at sharing my own things and I'm still possessive about things I love. Sorry I can't change being me and I'm a lady with over possessive attitude. If you are also like me, then a virtual same pinch to you heheh!