Good day fam!!!
Today you would be knowing something about my past as well as advice I want to give to myself when I was young. We have two questions to enter into the contest you can answer two of them and one it's your choice.
So I am answering question 2.
2️⃣ If you could go back in time and give your younger self just one piece of advice what would it be?
I am a lady of 25 years. I have a lot of regrets from my life spent in negligence. If I would revise the time j have much advice to give to myself. As per the contest question, I am supposed to write one piece of advice so it is,
Do not spend your money, emotions, and time on people, who don't deserve it.
Why I am giving out this advice? I have a lot of reasons. Back then in 2013 when I was a school-going and just jumped into college. I started living in a hostel with some strangers(class fellows from different parts of the country).
It was a private hostel with NO MESS. Life was colorful, attractive, and captivating. As the teenage fascinates us with the forgery of love, relations, and above all trust.
I was grown up in a religious family so morally I was a bit stronger than girls of my age. No matter how attractive boys were I didn't fall for them. It's a plus point for my younger self.
But I was blindly SPENDING my money and time for the people WHO do not deserve that all. With time I understand this and I regret this as well.
We were three girls living in a room, one of us was senior to me and the other was junior. Maybe they smelt the childish me and started trapping me with their miseries.
They never paid the bills when we dine out. They never celebrated my birthday in the three years I spent with me, they never offered me some gifts on my special days. And I was arbitrarily doing this for them.
I was a believer in DO NOT EXPECT. But I forgot there is a difference between expectations and foolishness.
The Sooner we departed from the hostels they haven't even contact me once. I cried like a dumb while missing them both, I wasn't eating in their grief. Isn't it dumbness?
Spending money for those who ONLY want money, crying for those WHO DO NOT CARE. Believing those WHO broke your trust.
It was me doing this all for people. Just quoted two, I have a lot of others who misused my innocence and money. Most of them were ladies.
So I would be suggesting myself not to WASTE anything for the people WHO do not deserve.
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