(My opinion)
Firstly I will like to say thanks ladies for having me here. Moving on, let me say this to address that many men have lost their ideal wife because of their long list of a wife material. Some of them have broken up with the mother of their unborn kids because of their emphasis on BODY SIZE and BEAUTY.
No woman should be measured as a wife based on domestic prowess alone or beauty. There are so much imbedded potentials in a woman that is beyond being domesticated.
I may not be your IDEAL WIFE MATERIAL but I am a PROUD POTENTIAL WOMAN. So don't think you're doing a woman a favour by marrying her.
Now, I Will move on to say dear ladies, Work on self improvement so no one makes you feel less. Infact women don't benefit much from marriage as that of men. Most Men get into marriage so they can have someone to give them children and help with the house so they get to focus on themselves. It is the sad truth. At the other hand, women get onto marriage to take care of her family and nothing else.
When a woman loves her self enough, she will be the black cat and she won't feel down in her marriage because she understands the power of psychology (You may argue with me if you do not understand from my perspective, but that is also beautiful because it shows that you are thinking on your own and having your own points, so I will definitely love to hear everyone's thoughts)
It is true we came alone but we do not need to stay alone. Most people get into marriage without mastering the act of self control. This has nothing, obsoletely nothing to do with emotions. Many woman are too emotional that they get manipulated and it's sad.
Just focus on loving yourself which includes self improvement, and everything around you will look beautiful. You will know how to go about every situation, removing emotions so you don't make dump decisions.
Note: not all men are the same, the right one will make you a better person, as you also make them better.
Most importantly, Love God and he will help you discover your true potentials.