There is a lot to talk about on this topic, but today I'm kinda continuing the postI made yesterday and talking about how sexual purity is no more important for women.
Two things were the major reasons why sexual purity was important back in the day:
• Marriage
• Shame
Marriage was the honour a woman got for being sexually pure, in most cases, and shame was what the woman got when she wasn't.
Marriage in most societies were for virgins, men always tried to get those and it was a big deal to be married for a woman. Women were brought up to start looking forward to and preparing for marriage at an early age. Marriage would give her a man who would take her under his wing.
A man was the most valuable of the sexes because a man could do every economically important thing better than a woman. A man could farm better, hunt better, fish better, build better, and could protect the valuables they have better.
As for shame, society shamed women who weren't sexually pure way more than they do today. A woman couldn't get away with a fraction of what they do today, but things have changed.
Now that everything has changed sexual purity is not that valuable anymore. Men are still richer and could provide and protect women whether they're married or dating, but a woman is not as vulnerable as she was in the past. There's the police and civilization now. Plus a woman has more freedom to make money and amass wealth than she used to have.
So why should a woman deny herself all the pleasure she could get just so she can get a man?
No partying, no getting high, no casual sex and orgasms? All for what? And people don't even get married early anymore, so it means it would take longer for her to get married so she's supposed to abstain from all of these for longer. Again, what does she get for that?
A man who has almost the same chances as her to make money? She could even be richer than him. She also don't get shamed for enjoying her sexual freedom a fraction as much as women used to get shamed in the past, so why not indulge?
It's just simple like that, the benefits of sexual purity for her isn't much anymore, and the pleasures of sexual freedom are mind blowing, so what does anyone expect?
People still want to hold on to what s woman was supposed to be in the past, forgetting that there was an entire system to keep her that way, a system that no longer exists.
Lastly why aren't we happier for women? Sex is pleasurable and enjoying it like they (women) want should be society's focus rather than making everything about women's sexual life to serve oy the purpose of pleasing and honouring a man without a care in the world about whether these women are having a blast out here in this short life.
No matter how strange women's freedom might feel to you you have to remember that having a good time should be wished upon every gender. Any woman who isn't enjoying it would surely not be doing it, so the ones doing it are having fun and you should be happy for them. All we should do is preach safe sex and make use of all the scientific measures available to us.
If this makes a woman not worthy of marriage to you then don't marry her, marriage has even become an obsolete arrangement. Plus many times you think a woman is sexually pure she even isn't, women stack a lot of skeletons in their cupboards in order to pretend to be sexually pure, so too many men have been fooled into thinking they have a sexually pure woman.
Then again, there are still women for those who want the more conservative one, but you should not expect them to be so much everywhere, you have to niche up snd let the rest of them who want to have fun be.
The End
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