Forgiveness is the act of pardoning an offender. Or “to let go,” as when a person does not demand payment for a debt.
Forgiveness is a multifaceted concept that can be both beneficial and challenging. While we're often encouraged to forgive, the question remains: do we always have to forgive? The answer to that question is YES.
Why Forgive?
Forgiveness can be a process of releasing negative emotions and finding emotional closure. It can help us heal and move forward. It can liberate us from the burden of resentment and anger, allowing us to live more freely. Forgiveness equally provide an opportunity for personal growth, self-reflection, and learning.
Forgiving Those Who Don't Deserve It can be challenging: HOW
When someone has caused you harm or hurt, it can be difficult to forgive if they don't show remorse or take responsibility. Forgiveness might seem to undermine justice, especially if the person involved isn't held accountable. It might put us at risk of further harm or exploitation if the person hasn't changed.
Forgiveness Doesn't Mean condoning the person's behavior, it does not necessarily mean rebuilding a relationship, it does not allow others to take advantage of us; for example, that you loan money to someone, but he wastes it and then cannot repay you as he had promised. He is very sorry and apologizes to you. You could choose to forgive him by not harboring resentment, not rehashing the matter with him continually, and perhaps even canceling the debt altogether. However, you might also choose not to loan him any more money
Should We Always Forgive?
Yes because forgiveness can be more about our own healing and growth than about the other person. It's about releasing the negative emotions and moving forward. Forgiveness is a process, and it's okay to take the time and space needed to work through our emotions and come to a place of healing.
Prioritizing our Well-being: we need to focus on self-care and prioritize our emotional and physical well-being. we should Surround ourself with a supportive network of friends, and family. Engaging in activities that promote personal growth, such as learning, journaling, or mindfulness practices
By understanding the complexities of forgiveness and prioritizing our own well-being, we can make informed choices about how to control challenging situations.
What is your take.