The question on sharing the thoughts on women and their finances can not be generalized but I will personally share my own. Me as a woman in a relationship prefer to keep my finances to myself because of what I had went through before when I do disclosed and share my finances with my spouse in our relationship.
I discover he always relent during the time he knew all about what I'm having both at hand and in bank. He relent in the sense that he doesn't feels like contributing much into the relationship in terms of expenses leaving almost 70% of it on my neck to cater for and have been in these for some years now.
So all this accumulated together and make me come to a conclusion of keeping every of my finances stuff to myself. As a lady out there I think you will be able to understand my thought that's why am pouring it out now.
To also buttress the point some men will start lavishing their own money on another women outside their relationship thinking and having it in mind that they have an ATM machine at home I.e his spouse that she will give him money if he asked her anytime.
Instead of such foolish man to start spending on his relationship for both to developed it together he started spending outside without expecting any income in return. Our men of nowadays needs to wake up from their sleep and start investing much into their relationship for it not to go astray.
This is my own opinion that our spouse shouldn't be allowed to know about our finances because some of them will start misbehaving in the sense that they will be waiting all the time for what you will bring to the table as a woman in the relationship forgetting totally their own responsibility and also what they intend to offer and also do to improve the relationship.
Some can even go to extreme end by becoming a liability to the woman leaving her to cater for also his need even with him having money on him and also financially stable I call this cheating and infidelity.