WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SAY TO YOUNG WOMEN TODAY, WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE THEM
There are a lot of experience I would love to share with the young women today and advice as well. That not withstanding I'm also a young lady and I want to say something on the point or fact we need to note before and after marriage. Using these brief point on the stages of life and growth observe the emphasis that lies in the whole story and that alone defines what would help us grow a healthy bond with the one we want to spend the rest of our lives with.
For each stage of life there are different lessons, we do grow and change every day, and there are different lessons that helps us in one way or the other in making life's decision or going about our daily life's dealings.
We grow from a toddler to the teen age to the youthful age then adulthood and last old age. Each of this growing stages has it's own lesson. Take for instance, for a toddler; Once you throw a baby up it smiles trusting you not to let it fall.
Toddlers have an amazing sense of trust and innocence. They believe that the people around them will always protect them and take care of them. It's a really beautiful and pure way of seeing the world.
For teens; one example for teens is learning how to control the challenges of peer pressure and social expectations. Teens often feel pressure to fit in and be liked by their peers, and it can be really challenging to balance that with staying true to themselves. Only once a teen is so close to you can they share these challenges with you trusting you to help them sail through it.
Next is the youth for the youths it is learning how to manage their emotions and develop emotional intelligence. This is a time when many people are experiencing strong emotions like anger, sadness, and joy. They tend to grow a big relationship and bond with their dear ones and the one who proposes love for them. But once they're heartbroken and no one to help put them back on track they lose trust bond for fear of yet another heartbreak.
For adulthood I feel one of life lessons is growing up to that stage. it's a stage where you make sure every decision of yours is made with lot of critical thinking because if as an adult you make mistake in ur decision or judgement it'll be a catastrophe on the Young ones looking up to you.
It lies solely on making responsible decisions and setting a good example for younger generations. It's a stage where we're not just living for ourselves, but also for the people around us. And with our sense of responsibility and purpose it is what differentiates adulthood from the other stages of life because of the trust that lies in the young ones.
For the last one we have the old age; At this age you just want to be taken care trusting on the people you took care of before this stage to nurture and show you love, tolerate their excesses and most important exhibit all u taught them.
Now putting these stages together the one point is trust. Trust is always staying true to that one person u can confide in.
Trust is an essential elements for our young women today who are in a relationship with their partner. Once you are able to trust and confide in your partner trust me it's like the kingdom of God. As the scripture says seek ye first the kingdom of God and it's righteousness and every other things will be added unto you. It's the same for every relationship. Once there's a trust other elements like respect, support, honesty and open communication follows. A one sided relationship can't work out because respect and support are key foundations for any healthy relationship. It's about more than just being there for each other when things are easy - it's also about being there when things are hard.
Most importantly we have to love ourselves ones we are able to love ourselves we are bond to share love.
It's important for young women to understand that trust is not just about trusting their partner, but also about trusting themselves. Self-trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship because if you don't trust yourself, how can you expect someone else to trust you?
One way to build self-trust is by setting boundaries and sticking to them. Boundaries are essential in any relationship because they help us define what we're comfortable with and what we're not. When we set boundaries, we're telling ourselves and our partners that we value ourselves enough to protect our own well-being.
Another important aspect of building trust is communication. Open and honest communication is key in any relationship because it helps build understanding and empathy between partners. When we communicate openly with our partners, we create a safe space where both parties feel heard and valued.
Finally, it's important for young women to remember that relationships takes work, sacrifices and time. They require effort, commitment, and a willingness to grow together. But when two people come together with love, respect, trust, and open communication, they can create a bond that lasts a lifetime
In conclusion, as a young woman or a young lady as myself I believe that building trust in ourselves and our relationships is crucial for a happy and healthy life. By learning from the lessons of each stage of life and growing together with our partners, we can create strong bonds based on mutual respect, support, honesty, and love.
This is my advice to the young women out there I hope this reaches them well.