I vow to myself that till I finish secondary school I won't have a boyfriend until I 'reach the age that I can settle down, and also the first man I will date or say I love you to will be my husband. Smiles Let the game begin.
It's not how you plan your future that it turns out, though planning fuels progress, and so when I turned 20, I finally accepted the young man to be my lover, and I visited with my friend. The next thing my girlfriend told me was, He said he loves her. Ah. So I didn't want to sabotage my relationship with her, and I allowed them to go ahead, so they were together for a while, and wow, the young man Called me and said, But what did you really do to me? But it was too late, and I had already moved on, and people came, and I tried, and some didn't work.
so at one point I met someone I called the love of my love. We were very cool; we were the envy of many people around us, so I fell ill. That's when our problem started. I was told to disengage, but I was so much in love, and I didn't want to start anything again. I was already ready to settle down, only for me to get slapped, and a lot was said to me. My friends who saw my efforts talked to me. ,You won't be able to. Even in the midst of that chaos, I still had hope because he came apologising.
That's after 2 months of breakup. I actually started fresh, and all I saw myself doing was crying every night while I had told myself never to shed tears on a man anymore for any wrong reason. So my friend, who we lived with, had travelled and told her I'm backing out this time around, and she said to me, "I warned you, but you didn't listen." I will drop a screenshot as proof of what she said: "She had told me, and I didn't listen." I felt bad I didn't listen. It takes a wise person to receive words like that; some people feel judged, and if someone loves you, they will tell you to your face. It is called criticism that can make you. I can actually say it to someone I love if I see the person is going the wrong way, but I will say it in love and give a solution to the problem or mistake made...
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