Hitting 21 with that feeling of a shift, like you have turned a mental corner that is real. Listing out what you did at 20 and realizing how much you have grown? That is something only someone paying attention to themselves can do. Owning forgiveness when you were hurt and recognizing how it freed you, it takes courage, subtle but serious courage. And learning to pause anger instead of letting it fling out at people, that is hard work. Feels like you are not just aging, you are becoming and that is worth noticing.
!ALIVE
!BBH