And to me mistakes are valuable because , mistakes can make us creative and innovative, you must be wondering how right? Here is the truth, mistakes can lead us to new ideas and approaches that bring innovation and creativity.
Mistakes can also help us cope with challenges and setbacks, overcoming mistakes can build resilience. Mistakes also give us a chance to learn and grow , it helps us identify areas of improvement.
If you look at mistakes from a brighter side you'll see that basically it's an eye opener that makes us wiser. And it touches every aspect of our lives.
But the bitter truth is that nobody would like to have that awful feeling after making a big mistake that cost you a lot .and even after being advised by people around you .
Sometimes I make mistakes, and some other times i try to avoid making one. Where I come from nobody advices you on anything, so I've grown with the nature of double checking, asking proper questions just to make sure i don't make mistakes.
Like there was one time was called by scammers, I never knew they were scammers, they told me they were calling from the bank and they needed some digits that would be sent to my phone, immediately I sent it to them my account was empty, I cried so much, but i became wiser, and now know how to set down rules so I'll be safe.
I was so ignorant because i wasn't sensitised on that, I was so innocent that day thinking it was the bank. Most times when we're being given the I told you so reaction, I simply due to the fact that you're being advised by someone with the same experience that you're been advised on , and you've refused to adhere.
I don't like regretting things, so when once I make a mistake, I just absorb the pains and move on, I've had so many life experiences to pass on , so if I'm opportune to advise someone and they don't adhere and end up making a mistake I wouldn't blame them and I wouldn't say(I told you so) because mistakes a bound to happen.