2025, is just in few days. I'm so much grateful particular for growth this year. In this particular year, I have gained academical heights, I have made lots of money this year just at the comfort of my home, I have not made really made friends this year, and a lot has really happened this year.
But as the year is gradually winding up, I have noticed that with all these achievements I have made, the money I have made, I haven't been able to take good care of myself. These money has always been spent on bills upon bills. Normally as a girl self care is priority, and it includes: wardrobe changes,eating healthy, looking good, keeping fit, smelling nice, skin and hair care,etc.
This hasn't particularly been my story for the year, my hair hasn't been treated for quite a long time
just the normal washing and Braiding every month. My clothes are not fitting anymore and I haven't changed my wardrobe since the Begining of the Year. It got worst to a certain point where I didn't have a purse nor bag as well as a good shoe to wear for and outing or event.
My life has so much revolves round school and academic activities since inception last year. I wear uniform everyday of my life, so the more reason why I am deficient of clothings. It actually dawned on me a couple of times that I needed to step out of school that I had no good outfits. Most times I get do discouraged to step out because of insufficient outfits.
So as at last two months , I started by Changing my foot wears and buying new ones. I have been so particular about my looks as well, so I have started giving myself some little skin care routine.
Talkless of food, I have been eating well of recent, looking healthy and attractive and then part of my Bills these year has been on My health because my health as really been troubling. I had a bucket list at the Beginning of this year and basically I have ticked all of them asides one which was con
So 2025 is in few days and it's a begining of new dawn for everyone. My utmost Priority for the New year is Gonna be 3 simple things
My Relationship with God:
Now this is not a resolution and it might some how look like it should be a personal thing but then, I feel its a priority for me in the coming Year. I really want the Bond to grow stronger and the Intimacy more intense. Frankly speaking I haven't really been committed this year. It has been the Laziest year of my life as well andu spiritual Life has been affected as well. But then In the coming Year, I really desire rekindling It.
My Self care:
This Shall be emphasized in the year 2025. I'm NGL, I crave doing a lot of things for myself as a girl this year. I crave to treat myself good this year. Buy lots of things for myself this year. Invest in my looks, my health, my academic, my appearances etc. I crave spending intimate and quality time with myself. Not Like Hallucination or Soliloquizing but just doing most things with Myself, resting, meditating and doing all the things I crave doing.
Part of my self care might also involve investing in good skill that might later be of importance for me.
This Year is solely for MYSELF. I have starved this baby girl of so much and she has really tried, so for this girl I need to give it a good treat.
Self-care doesn't really need to be Extravagant and I don't really need to go bankrupt. But with the little I have, I just want to make myself happy and beautiful. Less is more Right, at least for the level and stage I am , there are some basics I could afford for myself.
Prioritizing MYSELF over other things doesn't mean I would be selfish and not taking of other around me. Ofcourse Ill continue to spread love around but I would also love to spread the Love to Myself as well
I need to care and nurture myself as well.
