Todo es cuestión de organizarse / It's all about getting organized [Esp-Ing]

Como mujeres nuestro día a día viene compuesto de muchas tareas, responsabilidades, que hacer, a veces sentimos que no nos alcanza el tiempo para realizarlas todas, nos anclamos más de lo esperado en algunas, no terminamos de hacer otras y de vez en cuando eso nos estresa, más cuando hacemos más de una cosa a la vez.

Por ejemplo mi día se divide en cuidar a mi hija, cocinar, fregar, limpiar, organizar los juguetes de mi hija (lo cual es una tarea de seis a cinco veces por día), y los fines de semana dedicados a lavar ropa, el baño y una vez por semana limpiar el frente de la casa. Suenan cosas sencillas, que con paciencia se hacen, pero hay días de días en que todo se volvía un desastre, no terminaba haciendo todas las tareas y eso era cuestión de enojo para mí. Por eso aprendí a organizar una especie de horarios donde poco a poco he logrado una estabilidad. Me imagino que todas las mujeres llegamos a un punto donde aprendemos a organizar nuestro día y así fue que me funcionó a mí.

Mi día comienza a las 8 de la mañana. Me despierto antes que todos, hago el desayuno, lo sirvo a la mesa y luego voy a despertar a mi pareja y a mi hija. Después de comer el friega y yo acomodo las habitaciones. Está parte fue complicada, ya que él odia fregar, pero llego el momento en que le hice entender que tanto el como yo tenemos responsabilidades equitativas y como yo de vez en vez puede ser compresiva con él, él también tenía que serlo conmigo.

Ya en todo ese trayecto se nos da medio día, el comienza a trabajar y yo a limpiar la cocina y luego a jugar con mi hija, aunque la mayoría del tiempo ella prefiere ver sus caricaturas, yo en ese momento aprovecho y preparó mi contenido a compartir con ustedes. Ya acercándose las dos de la tarde, a mi hija le preparo su tetero, la duermo y luego me voy a preparar el almuerzo, esta comida mayormente la realizo con mi pareja, pero algunas veces lo hago sola, ya a las 3 o 4 de la tarde cuando ya la niña se ha despertado almorzamos, después me encargo de fregar y mi pareja comparte tiempo con la niña, preparamos café o aveza, comemos galletas y merendamos. Así hasta la cena, que varia en su horario y que por lo usual es algo sencillo. Ya en la noche, con la niña dormida aprovecho y comparto mi contenido en Hive.

Así suelen ser mis días y los fines de semana nos compartimos las actividades entre el cuidado de la niña, comida y lavar ropa. Todo por igual y así nos apoyamos.

Llegar a este punto costó y de vez en cuando aún hay conflictos por quien hace mas, o quien hace menos, solo tratamos de a veces no dejarnos llevar por discusiones y siempre lograr organizarnos en torno a algo más armonioso para los dos.

La organización apoya ya la unión y estabilidad en una pareja, también variar, porque a veces la monotonía suele ser asfixiante, pero todo es posible con el poder de la comunicación.

As women, our day-to-day life is made up of many tasks, responsibilities and things to do, sometimes we feel that we don't have enough time to do them all, we get stuck in some tasks more than we expected, we don't we don't finish others and from time to time that stresses us out, even more when we do more than one thing at a time. when we do more than one thing at a time.

For example, my day is divided into taking care of my daughter, cooking, washing, cleaning, organizing my daughter's toys (which is a chore).
my daughter's toys (which is a chore six to five times a day), and the weekends are dedicated to laundry, bathing and once a
laundry, bathing and once a week cleaning the front of the house. It sounds like simple things, which with patience
patience, but there were days and days when everything became a mess, I didn't end up doing all the chores, and that was a matter of
I didn't end up doing all the chores and that was a matter of anger for me. That's why I learned to organize a
I learned to organize a kind of schedule where little by little I have achieved stability. I imagine that all women reach a point
women reach a point where we learn to organize our day and that's how it worked for me.
worked for me.

My day starts at 8 in the morning. I wake up before everyone else, make breakfast, serve it at the table and then go to wake up
and then I go to wake up my partner and my daughter. After eating, he scrubs and I set up the rooms.
the rooms. This part was complicated, since he hates to do the dishes, but the time came when I made him understand that both he and I have to do the dishes.
I made him understand that both he and I have equal responsibilities and that I can be understanding with him from time to time.
and as I can be understanding with him from time to time, he also had to be understanding with me.

Already in all this journey we have half a day, he starts working and I start cleaning the kitchen and then play with my daughter, although
play with my daughter, although most of the time she prefers to watch her cartoons.
I take advantage of this time and prepare my content to share with you. As it was approaching two o'clock in the afternoon
afternoon, I prepare my daughter's bottle, I put her to sleep and then I go to prepare lunch, this meal is mostly done with my daughter and
I mostly do this meal with my partner, but sometimes I do it alone, and at 3 or 4 in the afternoon when my daughter has already woken up.
lunch, then I take care of the washing up and my partner shares time with the child, we prepare
We make coffee or beer, eat cookies and have a snack. So
dinner, which varies in its schedule and is usually something simple. At night, with the child asleep
asleep, I take the opportunity to share my content on Hive.

That's how my days usually are and on weekends we share the activities between taking care of the girl, food and laundry.
care of the child, food and laundry. Everything equally and we support each other in this way.

It was hard to get to this point and from time to time there are still conflicts about who does more, or who does less.
we just try sometimes not to get carried away by arguments and always manage to organize around something more harmonious to
around something more harmonious for both of us.

The organization already supports the union and stability in a couple, also vary, because sometimes the monotony is often asphyxiating.
monotony is often suffocating, but everything is possible with the power of communication.