.Greetings to all the ladies of this community, it is a real pleasure to participate in Ladies of Hive Community Contest #133, in this month when we celebrate mothers. Let's remember that women are the driving force behind the engines of our lives, I am a daughter, mother, sister, aunt, cousin and friend. My role is as important as that of each one of you regardless of our civic status, and much less without us losing sleep over what men think of us, being happy is the goal. Here are some answers to the questions posed by my friend
Creo que ser madre soltera no es una marca para la mujer, y mucho menos la haga diferente, he conocido a muchas mujeres que han decidido tener sus hijos sin importar si existe un compromiso con la pareja o no; para mí es una valiente y sabia decisión tener un hijo, aun siendo la esposa, porque ser madre es una responsabilidad. Pero he visto mujeres echadas para adelante que ha sabido educar y formar a sus hijos, que salen a comerse el mundo a trabajar por el bienestar de ella y sus hijos. ¿Ser diferentes? ¡Jamás! son tan hermosas, nobles y abnegadas como las esposas que muchas veces tienen una familia “funcional” y nunca cuentan con el apoyo suficiente para cumplir su rol.
Personalmente conozco a alguien que decidió tener un hijo, lo planificó y lo converso con el que una vez fue su novio por años, ella solo le pidió tener un hijo suyo y que ella se encargaría del resto, ¿cómo llamaríamos eso, ser diferente? No, creo que eso es tener la valentía de ser madre a cuesta de lo que sea, y la verdad que no la hace diferente, ya que es una mujer muy inteligente, aplicada y exitosa. También tengo amigas y familiares que ahora existen en esta sociedad llena de prejuicios, que luchan y trabajan a diario para dar lo mejor de sí. Estar casada, estar con un hombre al lado y una casa, no nos hace mejores, porque a veces tenemos una casa, pero no un hogar, donde hay carencias de muchas cosas que no son materiales.
¿Qué consejo les daría a las madres solteras? Ninguno en especial, porque pienso que cada quien vive su vida como mejor le plazca, que cada decisión que toman lo hacen sabiendo las consecuencias, en fin, espero que cada madre soltera de este mundo, sea muy feliz, que nunca tengan falta de nada y que Dios siempre las sustente. Sigan echando para delante de la mano de sus hijos sin esperar nada a cambio, porque la recompensa se las dará Dios. Espero que celebren su día con mucha alegría, abrazando a sus hijos con mucha intensidad.
- SINGLE MOMS! You don't have to be a single mom to share your thoughts on this, as we all must have seen or been around one, if we haven't been one. They are moms too, but how different, do you have any advice for them to keep pushing? I think being a single mother is not a mark for a woman, let alone make her different, I have met many women who have decided to have their children regardless of whether there is a commitment with the partner or not; for me it is a brave and wise decision to have a child, even being the wife, because being a mother is a responsibility. But I have seen women who have been able to educate and form their children, who go out to eat the world to work for the welfare of her and her children. To be different? Never! they are as beautiful, noble and selfless as the wives who often have a "functional" family and never have enough support to fulfill their role. I personally know someone who decided to have a child, she planned it and discussed it with her once boyfriend for years, she only asked him to have her own child and that she would take care of the rest, how would we call that, being different? No,I think that is having the courage to be a mother at any cost, and the truth is that it doesn't make her different, since she is a very intelligent, dedicated and successful woman. I also have friends and relatives who now exist in this society full of prejudice, who struggle and work every day to give the best of themselves. Being married, having a man by our side and a house does not make us better, because sometimes we have a house, but not a home, where there is a lack of many things that are not material. What advice would you give to single mothers? None in particular, because I think that everyone lives their lives as they please, that every decision they make is made knowing the consequences, in short, I hope that every single mother in this world is very happy, that they never lack anything and that God always sustains them. Keep moving forward hand in hand with your children without expecting anything in return, because the reward will be given to you by God. I hope you celebrate your day with great joy, embracing your children with great intensity.
Bueno en realidad este teme es un poco extenso y para mi depende del tipo de hombre o en este caso de mujer y las intenciones verdaderas sobre qué tipo de relación tienen, por ejemplo un hijo que sea exitoso puede brindar a su madre apoyo económico porque se trata de algo que va inmerso en la educación y sobre todo en el principio bíblico de honrar a los padres, si se trata del hombre que es un esposo, responsable, amoroso y comprometido con su rol, jamás pensarían que la mujer con quien ha decidido formar un hogar y familia piense que la esposa sea interesada, aunque se han visto casos, pero por naturaleza machista del hombre siempre creen que las mujeres siempre tienen un interés económicos sobre ellos.
Pero lo que para ellos parece ser una gran verdad, es una gran mentira para nosotras porque ellos se creen que, porque ofrecen algo, todas las mujeres caerían a sus pies. No sé si vaya a sonar duro, pero los hombres que hablan mal de una mujer que le exija un estilo de vida que merezca, lo hacen ser unos mediocres, porque la mujer merece ser tratada con amor y respeto y hay que darle el lugar y valor que merece, y no se necesita ser millonario para poder suplir todas sus necesidades, materialistas e interesadas seguiremos siendo aquellas mujeres que decidieron compartir sus vidas con un dinosaurio. Y la verdad en este tiempo las mujeres podemos trabajar para poder comprar y tener lo que queramos… recuerden que ahora las mujeres facturamos jajajajajajaja, así que sus opiniones nos tienen sin cuidado.
BIGGEST LIES! Some men believe that women love money more than they do, others believe something else.... What is the biggest lie you have heard or seen that men really believe about women? Well actually this topic is a bit extensive and for me it depends on the type of man or in this case woman and the true intentions about what type of relationship they have, for example a son who is successful can provide his mother with economic support because it is something that is immersed in education and above all in the biblical principle of honoring parents, If it is a man who is a husband, responsible, loving and committed to his role, they would never think that the woman with whom he has decided to form a home and family think that the wife is interested, although there have been cases, but by nature macho men always believe that women always have an economic interest over them. But what seems to be a great truth for them, is a great lie for us women because they believe that, because they offer something, all women will fall at their feet. I do not know if it is going to sound harsh, but men who speak ill of a woman who demands a lifestyle that she deserves, they are mediocre, because women deserve to be treated with love and respect and must be given the place and value it deserves, and it is not necessary to be a millionaire to be able to supply all their needs, materialistic and interested we will continue to be those women who decided to share their lives with a dinosaur. And the truth is that in this time women can work to be able to buy and have whatever we want... remember that now women are billed hahahahahahahahahaha, so we don't care about your opinions.