Is loneliness actually good or bad? The word loneliness may seem cold to all of us, but in reality, we all come into this world alone and leave this world alone. Many people are lonely for different reasons. Someone chooses to be alone and wants it, and someone has an unsuccessful relationship and is afraid of starting another relationship. Let me share with you my experience in building a real relationship.
I learned what a real relationship was after I got married. After marriage, like everyone else, there were misunderstandings too in our family. There were conflicts several times when we didn't support each other. Later I began to understand him, and I also began to understand why he thought that way, and the conflicts between us began to decrease. Then I realized that the most important thing in a relationship between two people is to understand and accept each other. It took me years, not a day, a month, or a year to figure this out. When we are young, we are hot, we are in a hurry, and we like to run, not walk, this affects not only our lifestyle but also our relationships. But when we grow up, we realize that people who walk, not run, can go farther. Usually, we try to change those around us to make them think like us, and when we can't do that, we feel very alone. We complain that no one understands us. In fact, we do not understand ourselves. If you want real relationships, learn to accept people as they are, and respect them and their opinions. Understand that we are all different, each of us is individual and no one is alike!
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