After several years, when we get close and decide to just give the name to that relation either friends or lovers and finally choose one relation out of them and also declare that he or she is fully connected to us,then we take that person for granted.Somewhere deep down we know that its our attention which gives the other person the power to govern your life even if no strong bond exists between the two of us.Just for the sake of love intially we feel its okay,he/she loves us a lot thats why he or she is doing all this.With the passage of time expectations and demands raise due to affection and firm bond in the relationship.Gradually,when our expectations and desires are not fulfilled by him or her then we feel like we need more,which is why people disconnect.Then lies and related thoughts come to one person's mind and these lies become dire consequence for the relationships.Now they start to doubt on each other unreasonably.Ultimately,they fight without any reason and start putting fingers on each other.As a result, the situation becomes even worse which ruins relationships.These misunderstandings break the bond between us. So if there is any issue you have the capability to sort it out as soon as possible because if you delay even for a second then you totally miss out on your close one.your misunderstandings and distances are the reason for third person to get advantage and get close to him or her.So According to my perception its upto you how much you want to allow the other person into your life.
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