Being a mother needs strength and courage, yeah you heard me right, strength and courage.
Inner strength preferably and courage within you because others may not see it but you will feel okay if you keep encouraging yourself in it.
I have become a stylist, a tailor, a teacher, a cook, a wahung machine and most importantly a mother.
I remember while in my singlehood i paid for everything i want, most times my mom provide everything i needed so i was not in want and wasn't even ready to learn not untill i got married and started having kids hmmm everything change drastically for me.
As my first daughter was growing up, i really wanted her head to be make rather than being cut so i tried taking her yo stylist and each time i do she will have worn in her hair, most times her head will be paining her alot so i try making her alone and all those pains stopped so i start learning how to make her hair through watching of hair styling movies on youtube most times on Facebook and Pinterest and it really went a long way to help build my skills up and today i can confidently style her hair anyhow i want it.
I make their hairs and this makes me happy and help save cost too.
I learn to sow their dresses, not all the time i need the help of a professional, i use my hand to make sure there is no damages in their dress and this i also learn after i had kids.
Before i even got married, i was not a lazy fellow so i know my cooking skills just that i have to level it up to met the needs of my kids. And since they are into being too too selective in their choice of food, i have to make sure i do the best in cooking to help them eat well and stay healthy for me.
I have learn motherhood the hard way, most times i feel like crying and i cry, and somedays i am all happy seeing them grow up very happy and sound but the process takes times and need dedication, time, care and attention.
In all i feel proud to be a mother though still learning as they are growing to different stage, different attitude and adjustment.
I pray i become a pro one day.