A lot of girls have undergone all manner of abuse, while some are still going through it. This abuse ranges from sexual abuse to physical violence. I've heard their cries, I've listened to their stories, but I keep asking myself, "What is it about these girls that they remain in these abusive relationships?" What is it about these guys that drives them crazy, that these girls cannot walk away but rather choose to stay back, to pray, to love, to care, and finally ends up beaten and broken?
As a university student, I have witnessed so many occasions where a guy physically violated his girlfriend, and the girlfriend called her brothers to discipline the boyfriend. In most cases, security personnel are involved, but at the end of the whole saga, the girl still returns to the so-called boyfriend.
Staying in an abusive relationship and trying to make it work is a dangerous and harmful decision. One can lose their life in it. To some guys, bullying a girl has become part of them. It gives them joy seeing how the girl shivers at the sound of their voice. Some say, "If you don't beat her, she won't respect you."
3 reasons why girls stay in abusive relationships.
- No doubt, some girls naturally don’t like cool guys, as they often say, “I need a man who can protect me and fight for me.” They believe that a cool guy wouldn’t provide the protection they desire, a cool guy who would always avoid violence.
- Rough sex or kinky as many called it. For most relationships, sex is considered an important aspect. Nothing is more pleasurable and satisfying than having a partner that knows the right places to touch you. I've heard girls talking about their sex life and fantasies, how they love it rough and aggressive, the spanking and choking.
- Money controls girls, a man with much money will have a lot of girls after him like a flock of sheep. I have witnessed a reel life scenario where a guy bullied his girlfriend and gifted her an iPhone.
Let me know your reasons in the comment section.
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