For the record, it's true that it isn't always easy.
Sometimes, you'll even be given other options.
For example, it may sometimes happen, that you have a very friendly and very senior neighbor, who has very different political beliefs and fight in WII, Sometimes too... That neighbor will have divorced recently, and start to try and pitch himself, as a good back up plan.
I don't have any talk problems with my marriage. He occasionally drives my nuts. I'm not going to visit my neighbor anymore,