I'm a 46-year-old mother of five in a beautifully blended family, where I've spent the past two decades trying to raise my kids with enough boundaries, respect, and love to survive adulthood. Now that they're nearly grown, I can’t help but chuckle at the wild, unpredictable results of 25 years of parenting. Now we can see the results of little humans who are getting their own personality.
I’m passionate about dancing, yoga, and philosophy, which means I can be deep and contemplative one minute, then break into a spontaneous jig the next. At my core, I’m a perfectionist with a dash of control-freak tendencies, fueled by a to-do list that makes even the most organized person sweat. And yes, while I’m a self-employed creative with a diverse skill set, that’s just another day in my already colorful life. Just like so many people.
Ever the creative jack-of-all-trades, I’m always juggling projects, some get finished, and others just hang out in the “maybe someday” pile. And honestly, I’m no different from most people; these quirks are part of what makes us all so relatable.
In my previous musings, I tried to laugh off life’s curveballs, especially those moments when things spin wildly out of my control. Sure, I have my grumpy days, but I know that’s just part of the ride we all share. I'm sure that I'm not alone.
By nature, I’m a quiet, serious soul until I feel comfortable, and I can be as much of a chronic complainer on tough days as anyone else. Some days shine bright, while others, well… not so much.
I’m not here to dole out a one-size-fits-all guide to life, sometimes true happiness is as simple (and as quirky) as standing on your head, even if that’s not everyone’s idea of fun. I write because it relaxes me and gives me a fresh way to look at the spinning of everyday life.
Now that my kids are finally spreading their wings and leaving the nest, I’m on a quest to carve out a new routine. And, honestly, there’s something wonderfully funny about that. Life is all about reinvention, and I’m taking it one laugh, one checklist, and one dance move at a time.
I'm sure we all do it, everyday.