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For more than three to two weeks, my siblings and I became caregivers, aka the only people who could be relied on the most when their mother was sick. Since January 23, 2023, our mother was diagnosed with LUNGS and then followed by an attack of Semen Blood (DM). This disease made our mother unable to walk and move independently.
Starting from bathing, wearing clothes, eating, urinating to defecating, we all have to help. Especially since the LUNG attack, Mama can't be left alone. Caring for parents who are sprawled and helpless due to illness is not an easy job. It takes an open heart and unlimited patience as wide as the ocean. At that time I had just returned from work and it happened that my parents' house was not far from my boss's house. Incidentally I worked as a driver. So far, my sister and mother have only lived together. His father passed away a long time ago, while my brother is married and lives with his small family. We are both on duty. My sister takes care of my mother, brother and I who support my sister and mother financially.
Even though he was disappointed because he couldn't continue his life like his classmates who had started working, my younger brother didn't mind because taking care of his mother was the most important figure in his life. During this time mother has raised all of us without the presence of a father figure. Maybe it's time to return the favor, my sister said At that time I thought what was wrong with sacrificing for the parents who raised us. Besides, at that time I was still optimistic that if you could be healthy again, our lives would return to normal again.
I can also work again as usual When he was brought home from the mother's biological brother's child event, he got sick due to fatigue, I was confused about how to take care of the mother who was weak and helpless. Meanwhile, I had to go to work early in the morning and come home late at night, and I tried to talk to my sister that my mother was sick and that Jan was not living alone.
My sister and I were the ones who initially rocked it while giving newspaper mats so it wouldn't fall apart. Continue to wipe with wet tissue and rinse with warm water. Initially, maybe because it was unusual, I had a little nausea. But, over time, I have become an expert at cleaning my mother. After my sister felt that she could take care of her mother alone, I returned to my little family's house in Peurada However, for some reason, since being sick, mother has changed into a different person. In addition, my younger sibling is getting sadder when he sees friends his age who have achieved achievements in their respective fields, while he seems to be shackled with chains that he cannot let go of at will. Physical and mental burden beat him.
When I visited, then my sister could breathe free air for a moment. My sister often cries when she is alone when she sees her friends when she can play, travel, date, work, but she has to take care of her mother at home. If you say tired, yes, you must be really tired. It's also sad because I take care of myself, take care of the house and my sister feels as if what happened to her has taken away the joy she had in her youth. Day after day, no matter how well my sister takes care of her mother, her condition continues to decline. Suddenly my mother had a LUNG attack, how exactly it happened, my sister doesn't know. Because at that time he was taking a shower.deteriorating
My sister called me to bring in a doctor and nurse and do intensive care at home for a few days.
My sister increasingly could not bear to see my mother's condition deteriorating. It's hard to digest food alone. Side dishes such as rice and meat must be finely ground and easy to swallow. Either because his physical condition is getting weaker. Maybe mom is lonely when I work vh v night after work, mom likes to talk to me and my sister. I was really surprised when she suddenly apologized to me. 'adxhhhhfgf-gz, my son, I've bothered you all, remembering the short conversation that night. The tiredness that we have been feeling for so long seems to have vanished.
With tears in our eyes, that night we embraced warmly. To be honest, being the person who takes care of your parents is really hard. But at least we don't regret it because I've tried my best for mom. If we gave up at that time, maybe our whole lives would be filled with regrets.
