Congratulations, Melinda!
Nine years sounds a very long time... Unfortunately it also marks a painful event in your life. I'm pretty sure that you managed the best way dealing with the loneliness.
Thank you for bringing your personal life story and to share with us, Melinda.
Luckily I came across your community of Shadow Hunters, and I joined couple of times with some humble posts. Thank you for putting effort and to share your energy with the community.
RE: 9 years and a few Waves