Saludos queridos Amigos
Greetings dear friends
feliz y bendecido día tengan todos ustedes es para mí una gran alegría El poder compartir en esta nueva semana con todos ustedes, en esta oportunidad quiero hablarles un poco acerca de un tema tan importante como lo es las relaciones y comunicación de nuestros pequeños con otros niños, ante todo quiero aclararles que no soy un especialista en esta área pero soy una madre que día a día vive y siente esta situación con mi pequeño y el día de hoy les escribo desde mi experiencia la cual se se les puede hacer de utilidad para algunos como para otros no, pues no todos los niños con esta condición son iguales.
Have a happy and blessed day all of you. It is a great joy for me to be able to share this new week with all of you. On this occasion I want to talk to you a little about a topic as important as the relationships and communication of our little ones with other children. First of all I want to clarify that I am not a specialist in this area but I am a mother who lives and feels this situation with my little one every day and today I am writing to you from my experience which may be useful to some. as for others it is not, since not all children with this condition are the same.
From a very young age, my child preferred to play alone, even though he had many cousins. When he entered school, the same thing also happened. However, if he noticed that he was trying to get close to his cousins and classmates, he would touch their hair and smell it, I immediately thought that It was a way of trying to interact with these little ones.
A few years later when I had younger cousins I tried to play with them however it was a bit rustic.
When I decided to have a girl, he was already five years old and the truth is I was a little afraid of how he would take this situation when he saw such a small child at home and what his treatment of him would be like.
Well, I tell you that from the first moment we took our little daughter home we saw an immediate change in him because he approached her and tried to touch her and even though she was a little afraid that he would hurt her, it was quite the opposite, she was so sensitive. and sweet with her that I felt very surprised.
When my girl grew up and could walk, the relationship between them grew because even though the girl was already beginning to pronounce some words and still does not speak, I know that they could communicate in some way because it has always been like that, finally my child was Learning. to play with her sister because she watched her and did the same as her.
It has always been my daughter who is now almost 4 years old who has felt most attracted to him and I have heard her many times conversing with him and motivating him to make sounds and say words. This has caused me a lot of joy because I trust that at some point he She will manage to do it, however I think that there is some different form of communication between them because many times she is the one who tells me what her brother wants.
He loves to follow her everywhere and play with her. I watch them laugh together and I feel very, very happy now when we go out to the park, she integrates him into the play group and helps him hide or run so he can play with the other children.
Many times I have thought that this relationship that he created with his sister is weak because she is very small and her innocence is as pure as his.
I believe that our blue children are capable of creating a close relationship with other children and are able to communicate with them in their own way, perhaps for some adults it is a little more difficult to accept and understand our children with their condition because of their way.
so strict and closed in thinking and believing in the word normality as perfection, however, if we look and pay attention, children, because they are tender and innocent without malice, are capable of opening their hearts to our little ones and accepting and loving them in their own way.
I know that for many little blues it is a little more difficult to be able to socialize with other children, however I think that with a little love, patience and persistence we can make our little ones take a small step towards their social relationship with other people.
My dear parents and friends who are members of this beautiful community, I hope that this experience that I have shared today with all of you can be useful and beneficial. I thank you for sharing with me today.
greetings and blessings.
All Photos are my authorship and were taken with my Redmi 9 Cellphone