Tomarle una foto a mi hijo es un reto, decirle que te vea cuando anda disperso es otro reto más, hay que hacerle un llamado para que te atienda.

¿Nunca han escuchado o leído que hay que agacharse para hablar con los niños? Aquí en este caso hay que hacerlo, agacharse y ponerse a la altura del niño para que te entienda lo que le quieres decir.

A lo largo de estos 7 años de ser mamá, y no se porqué, me he puesto a prestar atención a esos detalles que marcan una diferencia, para así evitar un mal momento, un regaño o un castigo.

El tema es que los niños en general se deben tratar con diferentes estrategias que nuestros padres no implementaban.

Yo me acuerdo que es casa de unas personas que conocí, no había televisión pero había un piano y gente que tocaba piano. Hoy día son tremendos músicos. Me parece una buena estrategia. Claro, son francesesfranceses, no se si tiene algo que ver.

En fin, este niño que ven en las fotos para poderle tomar una foto hay que llamarlo y hacerle ver a la Cámara. Ahí le tomé varias intentando que viera fijamente.

No sólo por el hecho de ver a la Cámara, era lo emocionado que estábamos en el sitio donde estábamos. Que era su primera vez comiendo chino. Si le gustó, es un tema de sacarlo a hacer una actividad. Comer algo distinto, ver nuevos sitios.

En casa casi no nos sacaban a la playa por ejemplo, yo iba a la playa con otras familias, no con mis padres y eso es algo que queda en nuestra menta. Si me acuerdo que íbamos mucho a Puerto La Cruz y paseabamos. Eso si.

Entonces, ¿cuantas fotos le sacarlas al niño para que salga mirando a la Cámara?

Yo siempre le ando tomando fotos a César, también depende del día que tenga y la tranquilidad. Hoy después de días de calma, se puso a pelear con el Shihan del kárate, incluso conmigo, menos mal que fue un ratico y que tenía una correa a la mano, solamente con sacarla, comenzó a portarse mejor.

Todo es cuestión de paciencia y saber en qué momento hacerlo, no quiero un modelo, quiero una foto donde se vea lo que reflejan sus ojos y vean lo bonitos que son y dicen. Generan paz, al menos a mí.

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The boy who does not see the camera

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Taking a photo of my son is a challenge, telling him to see you when he is scattered is another challenge, you have to call him to attend to you.

Have you ever heard or read that you have to bend down to talk to children? Here in this case you have to do it, bend down and get up to the child's height so that he understands what you want to tell him.

Throughout these 7 years of being a mom, and I don't know why, I have started to pay attention to those details that make a difference, in order to avoid a bad moment, a scolding or punishment.

The issue is that children in general must be treated with different strategies that our parents did not implement.

I remember that it is the house of some people I met, there was no television but there was a piano and people who played the piano. Today they are tremendous musicians. Sounds like a good strategy to me. Of course, they are French French, I don't know if it has something to do with it.

In short, this child that you see in the photos, in order to take a photo of him, you have to call him and make him see the camera. There I took several trying to get him to stare.

It wasn't just seeing the House, it was how excited we were where we were. That it was his first time eating Chinese. If he liked it, it is a matter of taking him out to do an activity. Eat something different, see new places.

At home they hardly ever took us to the beach, for example, I went to the beach with other families, not with my parents, and that is something that remains in our minds. I do remember that we used to go to Puerto La Cruz a lot and walk around. Yes indeed.

So, how many photos do you take of the child so that he comes out looking at the camera?

I'm always taking pictures of César, it also depends on the day he has and how calm he is. Today after days of calm, he began to fight with the Shihan of karate, even with me, luckily it was a little while and that he had a strap at hand, just by taking it out, he began to behave better.

It's all a matter of patience and knowing when to do it, I don't want a model, I want a photo where you can see what their eyes reflect and see how beautiful they are and say. They generate peace, at least to me.