Before I blame myself thoroughly I do pause, scan and observe if truly I was wrong.
Pause before you call it a bad day, or something worse.
You see that thing you’re calling a problem? It might just be a lesson you need to learn or a stepping stone for greater heights.
Viewing your challenges from a different perspective doesn’t mean you should pretend that it doesn’t hurt. It means asking yourself a softer question instead of a harsh one.
Instead of asking: “Why is this happening to me?” ask: “What is this teaching me about myself?”
Some people always think that whenever challenges come their way, it's their village witches at work, or they were programmed from the pit of hell.
That's quite funny but yet it us still believed in today's world and time.
Hey, the truth is that, sometimes, the challenge isn’t there to break you.
It’s there to slow you down, stretch you, or redirect you to something better.
So when life feels heavy, pause and breathe. It isn’t proof you’re failing.
It’s proof you’re growing in a way you haven’t grown before.
Remember, you’re not behind. You’re becoming. It is a process pattern that needs to be passed.
I always Cheers to a healthier mindset that way I assume it all good even before it begins.
This is why it is best said that being you is the best of it all, I shouldn't be like everyone else?
No!
Your difference is a factor of your purpose.
If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “Why don’t I fit in like the rest?”
This is for every individual that have thoughts Often time, we’re quietly trained to blend in.
Talk like them. Think like them. Want what they want.
Because being different often feels like a problem that needs fixing.
But what if it isn’t a problem at all?
What if it’s a clue?
𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝘄𝗲'𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗲(𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲).
Different personalities don’t come from nowhere.
They’re shaped by what we’ve lived through, what we noticed when others didn’t, what hurt us, healed us, or woke us up early and what we were forced to learn too soon
Two people can grow up in the same house and still come out completely different. Why? Because purpose doesn’t duplicate. Life custom-builds people for specific assignments.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴.
We compare ourselves to people who were never meant to carry our load.
The quiet one envies the loud one, most times the emotional one envies the logical one, often the slow thinker envies the fast mover.
And in that comparison, we start editing ourselves—toning down what makes us us just to feel acceptable.
That’s how people abandon their purpose without realizing it.
Your personality is not random
Think about this:
The one who feels deeply often carries the purpose of healing, empathy, writing, counseling, or art.
The one who questions everything and was likely designed to challenge systems, expose lies, or create better ones.
The one who prefers solitude and nay be built for deep thinking, strategy, wisdom, or creation.
What society calls “too much” or “too different” is often what purpose requires.
I have put these into a permanent memo why I must protect my difference. The world doesn’t need another copy.
It needs what only you can bring.
When you suppress your personality to fit in, you don’t just lose yourself, you rob the world of a solution it was waiting for.
Yes, being different can be lonely.
Yes, it can make you misunderstood.
But it’s also the price of carrying something meaningful.
You were not designed to be like everyone; and that's okay.
You were designed to do what everyone else cannot.
Your difference is not an accident.
It’s a direction or better of, an advantage.