Peace of mind: The Responsibility battle
I'm really glad to be in this wonderful community, sharing my experience on how the mind is being control emotionally base on adulthood responsibility.
Embracing peace rather than panicking is a nice and life saving idea. The psychology and mentality behind ever reacting to sudden responsibility duties or even emotional news is certain. Even some animals do react emotionally like the elephant, chimpanzees and dogs, so that's to show we humans too ain't invulnerable.
Emotion's will always take its part.
Like recently I got a disturbing news from home and we'll know how dis stabilizing that can cause, and due to the responsibility at hand so many thoughts flew in, someone who isn't strong enough might breakdown at ant point but since I've mastered act of positive thoughts rather than negative ones which will dis balance my mindset and its peace and immediately finds something to take my mind off it just for that period, so I won't loose concentration.
I know what I experience some of you folks must have pass through same or currently passing through it. This all boils down to RESPONSIBILITY in the family.
Even currently as a serving corper in Nigeria, there jab been some issues that wanted messing up my mind to also going qvk to that introverted kind of person which I have long dropped, I managed to break out again regardless.
One thing I've come to understanding with over the years is that there's always going to be one or two challenges, what I'm saying is there isn't a perfect life out there but there's a progressive one and it can be achieved with determination and resilience. it can be a phase for self improvement but comes in a disguised manner of difficulty.
In preparation, I personally set my minds on doing my best and expecting the worse not to be caught un prepared is the worst thing ever to happen, I won't miss out the believing aspect.
But since this is not a religious contents I will leave that to your personality and religions beliefs.
This morning when I wen out to get some groceries I saw some construction workers on site, what we usually call the masonry workers they we're at work but I noticed one amongst them was quite and looking very sad, since he was a young man like me I approached him, all what was bothering him was how will he meet up, as a family man. You see what responsibility brings? Just wanting to meet up, I just advised him to trust in himself and take things at his own pace.
He didn't even know he was still on the fence because his mind was far gone in thoughts.
I had secretly take a picture of him on site.
Some People are really passing through a lot.
There tends to be some people who don't like sharing their heldbacks of issues thinking that even if they talk about it no one will help them mindset, well you can't be totally sure you will someone who will solve the issues but there will be someone to show you a better way to handle situations of such.
Using myself as an example, the Responsibility pattern is in a high rate because I'm the first son and automatically most if not all responsibility sets in, though most parents knows how to stabilize the pressure because such push can lead to unwanted circumstances in life.
Like the, riches, marriage jobs just to name a few.
I always try to be calm in such situation, do the very best and allow things play out the way it should, because nothing kills a man more faster than he's own weight of thoughts.