There is always a space and time where and when we find ourselves in a situation we are not were we want to be and also on reality check we are not where we used to be, so how do you navigate through that particular challenge? This is something a lot of persons, myself included do experience. That period of time can be very complicated and confusing at some point because we don't really have a clear view of how to navigate through and we also can't go back to the way things used to be before and often times it becomes a stalemate.
Especially when such place of thoughts has a lot of PTSD also know as post trauma syndrome deficiency.
From my perspective and point of view I will say both instance's can be considered to be home, because that place where you are called to be can be considered your natural state, where you will eventually end up with time and where you used to be is where you're familiar with, where you grew up and most importantly where you come from. Now this isn't base on psychology rather of physical phenomenon.
Looking at the fundamental law of the universe, everything has it's allocated time and rhythm for existence, that rhythm determines the way things will flow for each person. I believe our destiny is in our hands and not on one supernatural being dictating it for us. We're not designed to chase dreams rather we are to create the dream we desire and wish for.
If my rhythm is to wait then I will surely wait, if it's to pause then I will pause but if it's to work aggressively then I will work aggressively because that is my rhythm. In order to navigate through that space in-between, I believe one needs to know what their Northstar is and in this case am referring to your core values, your guiding principles and your true purpose in life because that will give you a clear understanding of what you need to do
You also need to be patient with yourself and understand that there is a difference between your time and other people's time when it comes to natural flow of order, because everyone has a different time schedule. It might be that your friend or brother whom you worked hard together for a long time became successful leaving you behind, that's their time, because when you become successful also, you might go way ahead of them even though they made it before you.
The same thing can be said in your case, that is, others might steam way ahead of you even though you were the first to become successful before them. There is an expression that says "a ship at the dock will never sink" but the truth of it is that ships were not built to sit on the dock but rather to sail. I believe that the space of opportunities and danger balancing each other lies between where we come from and where we are called to be.
That will be all for now
Thank you for your time