Happy Monday Fam🥰
I've always been keen about friendship and having a shoulder to lean on , because I believe you can't or shouldn't do life alone,one way or the other we need people, whether we're rich,in the middle or poor, people are of importance in every human interaction .
I got to Understand early in life that Relationship is a treasure and money is the least on the chain of wealth. How we treat other humans is very important how much more the people who are close to us ,Our Friends.
As much as I love friendship, once it becomes one sided it becomes a sign that I should walk away from such. A friendship where you eventually become the one giving all the energy, doing the calling, apologizing even when you're not wrong, a friendship with unhealthy competition and lack of support, such friendship or relationship is toxic and if you're the one doing all the giving them you should probably do some evaluation and decide to walk away.
The thing with walking away is that you'll try to justify the reason for their lapses , you'll fear loneliness,most times you'll feel like there's no other person you can be close to but I'm here to burst your bubble... There's thousands of people on the face of the earth or even in your community that would love and value you and reciprocate positive energy.
Friendship should be about Synergy and support,it shouldn't be a competition but a collaboration, friendship shouldn't be one sided its a two way thing.
Most of the time you see the signs ,the jabs that appears as jokes but have a hint of spiteful competition,the unsupportive attitude,they usually praise others but look down on your own efforts and your wins don't move them,that act like you didn't even try .
If you're in such a friendship you know what to do
Protect your mental health, your worth and your space,do your self a favor and walk away, you deserve better.
Also if you're a friend enough displays all the negatives written in my writeup, you can actually be a better person and change the attitude,be a good friend.
We can all achieve so much more together......
I do hope we have good relationships and make friends that will grow with us and celebrate us and of course accept us for who we are, adjust when necessary,tell us of our short comings with the right tone and body language and support us with all of their heart.
Thank you for reading to this point
Have an amazing week ahead.